Born_Again
Don Juan
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I'll try anything once, so why not day 1
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
No Fap Challenge Progress
- Thread starter Mr.SomeoneElse
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
YoungSir4sho
Senior Don Juan
Failed again this morning unfortunately. Think cuz it was raining a bit last night smh.. On day 1!! Not messing up this time..
Cerwin Vega
Master Don Juan
Day 1
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Okay time to get serious fellas.
Day fvcking 1
My NoFap Goals
1] Do not Fap for 90 days
2] Do not watch ANY pornography for 90 days
3] The only orgasms I can have are from a woman directly
4] Document every day the changes I see/feel
Reason why I am doing this:
Yesterday I had sex with this girl and my d1ck went limp, and when I finally got it back up it was like a semi and took me forEVER to bust, and Im fvcking 21. Thats ridiculous. My sex drive should be THROUGH the roof. Im basically at a point where fvcking a hot chick doesn't do it for me. I have a serious porn and fapping problem.
LETS GOOOOOOO!
Day fvcking 1
My NoFap Goals
1] Do not Fap for 90 days
2] Do not watch ANY pornography for 90 days
3] The only orgasms I can have are from a woman directly
4] Document every day the changes I see/feel
Reason why I am doing this:
Yesterday I had sex with this girl and my d1ck went limp, and when I finally got it back up it was like a semi and took me forEVER to bust, and Im fvcking 21. Thats ridiculous. My sex drive should be THROUGH the roof. Im basically at a point where fvcking a hot chick doesn't do it for me. I have a serious porn and fapping problem.
LETS GOOOOOOO!
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Start of day 2.
Its been 24 hours since Ive started.
I want to fap really badly. I will not DO IT. I must push forward.
Will power. Will power. Will power.
Its been 24 hours since Ive started.
I want to fap really badly. I will not DO IT. I must push forward.
Will power. Will power. Will power.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
ovoxo said:
You got this bro! stick in there.
Im just verging on 36 hours now.
Feel pretty good. No urges.
Me and you are the only ones doin it right now so we gotta give each other motivation! feel me?
Die Hard
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 15, 2009
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40 days now. So proud, lol.
I gotta admit, I do fap for a brief moment now and then, but just with my imagination, no porn, and I don't cvm.
I see no problem in doing this, though. I consider it more as a short exercise to see if I can still get it up, just like your body does every morning at waking up. As soon as I feel the urge to go work towards an orgasm, I quit.
I gotta admit, I do fap for a brief moment now and then, but just with my imagination, no porn, and I don't cvm.
I see no problem in doing this, though. I consider it more as a short exercise to see if I can still get it up, just like your body does every morning at waking up. As soon as I feel the urge to go work towards an orgasm, I quit.
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narcissist
Master Don Juan
Day 3... This is the longest i have gone in about 4 years without fapping...
Still dont feel any side effects.
Although yesterday when I was reading i had unbelievable cravings
Still dont feel any side effects.
Although yesterday when I was reading i had unbelievable cravings
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Redwood
Senior Don Juan
Funnily enough for me, I always get an urge to fap at 3AM.
Limiting myself is a huge challenge seeing that habits are HARD to break.
Day 1 for me.
Limiting myself is a huge challenge seeing that habits are HARD to break.
Day 1 for me.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Day 4
Redwood
Senior Don Juan
Time to restart.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Day 5
melancholy
Don Juan
- Joined
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Day 5 for me.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.