Born_Again
Don Juan
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I'll try anything once, so why not day 1
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
No Fap Challenge Progress
- Thread starter Mr.SomeoneElse
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
YoungSir4sho
Senior Don Juan
Failed again this morning unfortunately. Think cuz it was raining a bit last night smh.. On day 1!! Not messing up this time..
Cerwin Vega
Master Don Juan
Day 1
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Okay time to get serious fellas.
Day fvcking 1
My NoFap Goals
1] Do not Fap for 90 days
2] Do not watch ANY pornography for 90 days
3] The only orgasms I can have are from a woman directly
4] Document every day the changes I see/feel
Reason why I am doing this:
Yesterday I had sex with this girl and my d1ck went limp, and when I finally got it back up it was like a semi and took me forEVER to bust, and Im fvcking 21. Thats ridiculous. My sex drive should be THROUGH the roof. Im basically at a point where fvcking a hot chick doesn't do it for me. I have a serious porn and fapping problem.
LETS GOOOOOOO!
Day fvcking 1
My NoFap Goals
1] Do not Fap for 90 days
2] Do not watch ANY pornography for 90 days
3] The only orgasms I can have are from a woman directly
4] Document every day the changes I see/feel
Reason why I am doing this:
Yesterday I had sex with this girl and my d1ck went limp, and when I finally got it back up it was like a semi and took me forEVER to bust, and Im fvcking 21. Thats ridiculous. My sex drive should be THROUGH the roof. Im basically at a point where fvcking a hot chick doesn't do it for me. I have a serious porn and fapping problem.
LETS GOOOOOOO!
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Start of day 2.
Its been 24 hours since Ive started.
I want to fap really badly. I will not DO IT. I must push forward.
Will power. Will power. Will power.
Its been 24 hours since Ive started.
I want to fap really badly. I will not DO IT. I must push forward.
Will power. Will power. Will power.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
ovoxo said:
You got this bro! stick in there.
Im just verging on 36 hours now.
Feel pretty good. No urges.
Me and you are the only ones doin it right now so we gotta give each other motivation! feel me?
Die Hard
Master Don Juan
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40 days now. So proud, lol.
I gotta admit, I do fap for a brief moment now and then, but just with my imagination, no porn, and I don't cvm.
I see no problem in doing this, though. I consider it more as a short exercise to see if I can still get it up, just like your body does every morning at waking up. As soon as I feel the urge to go work towards an orgasm, I quit.
I gotta admit, I do fap for a brief moment now and then, but just with my imagination, no porn, and I don't cvm.
I see no problem in doing this, though. I consider it more as a short exercise to see if I can still get it up, just like your body does every morning at waking up. As soon as I feel the urge to go work towards an orgasm, I quit.
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narcissist
Master Don Juan
Day 3... This is the longest i have gone in about 4 years without fapping...
Still dont feel any side effects.
Although yesterday when I was reading i had unbelievable cravings
Still dont feel any side effects.
Although yesterday when I was reading i had unbelievable cravings
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Redwood
Senior Don Juan
Funnily enough for me, I always get an urge to fap at 3AM.
Limiting myself is a huge challenge seeing that habits are HARD to break.
Day 1 for me.
Limiting myself is a huge challenge seeing that habits are HARD to break.
Day 1 for me.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Day 4
Redwood
Senior Don Juan
Time to restart.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Day 5
melancholy
Don Juan
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Day 5 for me.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.