Born_Again
Don Juan
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I'll try anything once, so why not day 1
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
No Fap Challenge Progress
- Thread starter Mr.SomeoneElse
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
YoungSir4sho
Senior Don Juan
Failed again this morning unfortunately. Think cuz it was raining a bit last night smh.. On day 1!! Not messing up this time..
Cerwin Vega
Master Don Juan
Day 1
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Okay time to get serious fellas.
Day fvcking 1
My NoFap Goals
1] Do not Fap for 90 days
2] Do not watch ANY pornography for 90 days
3] The only orgasms I can have are from a woman directly
4] Document every day the changes I see/feel
Reason why I am doing this:
Yesterday I had sex with this girl and my d1ck went limp, and when I finally got it back up it was like a semi and took me forEVER to bust, and Im fvcking 21. Thats ridiculous. My sex drive should be THROUGH the roof. Im basically at a point where fvcking a hot chick doesn't do it for me. I have a serious porn and fapping problem.
LETS GOOOOOOO!
Day fvcking 1
My NoFap Goals
1] Do not Fap for 90 days
2] Do not watch ANY pornography for 90 days
3] The only orgasms I can have are from a woman directly
4] Document every day the changes I see/feel
Reason why I am doing this:
Yesterday I had sex with this girl and my d1ck went limp, and when I finally got it back up it was like a semi and took me forEVER to bust, and Im fvcking 21. Thats ridiculous. My sex drive should be THROUGH the roof. Im basically at a point where fvcking a hot chick doesn't do it for me. I have a serious porn and fapping problem.
LETS GOOOOOOO!
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Start of day 2.
Its been 24 hours since Ive started.
I want to fap really badly. I will not DO IT. I must push forward.
Will power. Will power. Will power.
Its been 24 hours since Ive started.
I want to fap really badly. I will not DO IT. I must push forward.
Will power. Will power. Will power.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
ovoxo said:
You got this bro! stick in there.
Im just verging on 36 hours now.
Feel pretty good. No urges.
Me and you are the only ones doin it right now so we gotta give each other motivation! feel me?
Die Hard
Master Don Juan
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40 days now. So proud, lol.
I gotta admit, I do fap for a brief moment now and then, but just with my imagination, no porn, and I don't cvm.
I see no problem in doing this, though. I consider it more as a short exercise to see if I can still get it up, just like your body does every morning at waking up. As soon as I feel the urge to go work towards an orgasm, I quit.
I gotta admit, I do fap for a brief moment now and then, but just with my imagination, no porn, and I don't cvm.
I see no problem in doing this, though. I consider it more as a short exercise to see if I can still get it up, just like your body does every morning at waking up. As soon as I feel the urge to go work towards an orgasm, I quit.
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narcissist
Master Don Juan
Day 3... This is the longest i have gone in about 4 years without fapping...
Still dont feel any side effects.
Although yesterday when I was reading i had unbelievable cravings
Still dont feel any side effects.
Although yesterday when I was reading i had unbelievable cravings
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Redwood
Senior Don Juan
Funnily enough for me, I always get an urge to fap at 3AM.
Limiting myself is a huge challenge seeing that habits are HARD to break.
Day 1 for me.
Limiting myself is a huge challenge seeing that habits are HARD to break.
Day 1 for me.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Day 4
Redwood
Senior Don Juan
Time to restart.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Day 5
melancholy
Don Juan
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Day 5 for me.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.