Born_Again
Don Juan
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I'll try anything once, so why not day 1
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
No Fap Challenge Progress
- Thread starter Mr.SomeoneElse
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
YoungSir4sho
Senior Don Juan
Failed again this morning unfortunately. Think cuz it was raining a bit last night smh.. On day 1!! Not messing up this time..
Cerwin Vega
Master Don Juan
Day 1
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Okay time to get serious fellas.
Day fvcking 1
My NoFap Goals
1] Do not Fap for 90 days
2] Do not watch ANY pornography for 90 days
3] The only orgasms I can have are from a woman directly
4] Document every day the changes I see/feel
Reason why I am doing this:
Yesterday I had sex with this girl and my d1ck went limp, and when I finally got it back up it was like a semi and took me forEVER to bust, and Im fvcking 21. Thats ridiculous. My sex drive should be THROUGH the roof. Im basically at a point where fvcking a hot chick doesn't do it for me. I have a serious porn and fapping problem.
LETS GOOOOOOO!
Day fvcking 1
My NoFap Goals
1] Do not Fap for 90 days
2] Do not watch ANY pornography for 90 days
3] The only orgasms I can have are from a woman directly
4] Document every day the changes I see/feel
Reason why I am doing this:
Yesterday I had sex with this girl and my d1ck went limp, and when I finally got it back up it was like a semi and took me forEVER to bust, and Im fvcking 21. Thats ridiculous. My sex drive should be THROUGH the roof. Im basically at a point where fvcking a hot chick doesn't do it for me. I have a serious porn and fapping problem.
LETS GOOOOOOO!
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Start of day 2.
Its been 24 hours since Ive started.
I want to fap really badly. I will not DO IT. I must push forward.
Will power. Will power. Will power.
Its been 24 hours since Ive started.
I want to fap really badly. I will not DO IT. I must push forward.
Will power. Will power. Will power.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
ovoxo said:
You got this bro! stick in there.
Im just verging on 36 hours now.
Feel pretty good. No urges.
Me and you are the only ones doin it right now so we gotta give each other motivation! feel me?
Die Hard
Master Don Juan
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40 days now. So proud, lol.
I gotta admit, I do fap for a brief moment now and then, but just with my imagination, no porn, and I don't cvm.
I see no problem in doing this, though. I consider it more as a short exercise to see if I can still get it up, just like your body does every morning at waking up. As soon as I feel the urge to go work towards an orgasm, I quit.
I gotta admit, I do fap for a brief moment now and then, but just with my imagination, no porn, and I don't cvm.
I see no problem in doing this, though. I consider it more as a short exercise to see if I can still get it up, just like your body does every morning at waking up. As soon as I feel the urge to go work towards an orgasm, I quit.
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narcissist
Master Don Juan
Day 3... This is the longest i have gone in about 4 years without fapping...
Still dont feel any side effects.
Although yesterday when I was reading i had unbelievable cravings
Still dont feel any side effects.
Although yesterday when I was reading i had unbelievable cravings
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Redwood
Senior Don Juan
Funnily enough for me, I always get an urge to fap at 3AM.
Limiting myself is a huge challenge seeing that habits are HARD to break.
Day 1 for me.
Limiting myself is a huge challenge seeing that habits are HARD to break.
Day 1 for me.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Day 4
Redwood
Senior Don Juan
Time to restart.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Day 5
melancholy
Don Juan
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Day 5 for me.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.