“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Well guys, at least with all this I know what I need to do in life.

Pretty much everything in my life has been a failure up until now but I'll undo it and fix it. At least I can admit I've failed now lol

For starters, I'm going to the office to get my academic questions answered.
 
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If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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I was under the impression that school wasn't supposed to be fun, right? I think programming is cool but I have to put in that effort lol. There's the discipline thing we were talking about
"Discipline" is fun when you stick to the plan and hit your marks. Your learning will be too when its part of a plan of responsible discipline.
 

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"Discipline" is fun when you stick to the plan and hit your marks. Your learning will be too when its part of a plan of responsible discipline.
Yup. Crazy how I was doing well and then that program killed me.

I'll fix this and be the perfect dude I was always meant to be
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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That's Bvll**** and you know it!!! Why feed yourself such sh!t???

A child learns to walk..Is every moment before he wins the olympics as an adult a failure, then??????

That's how YOU judge yourself @nicksaiz65
I still just feel like a failure... I should've been doing Game, fvcking bytches and coding since 13-14 but I didnt start until 19. Nothing I can't undo, but it just annoys me. That's why I feel I have to overcompensate so hard with Game Theory
 

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You can learn anything with time and focus. Anything. Just because you can learn anything doesn't mean you should.
You could learn Chinese. Would you, just to show you are capable? Learn to read all those characters just to prove you won't let it beat you? Would you?

There are a lot of instruments you can choose to play. Why do you choose to play the ones, YOU CHOOSE to play?
Because I like the sound, repertoire, musical potential, and it seems like a good fit for me
 

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What makes one instrument a "good fit for you" vs all the others?
I like the technique/theory behind it, and I like the music you can play on it. Very wide range of application. It's just my style and I couldn't see myself playing anything else
 

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Guys guys guys guys guys!!!!!!!!

I don't have to take that fvck ass bullsh*t Cal 2 class anymore! I'm done!!!!!!!!

I made a D the first time and it turns out that's all I need to pass and move on. My school updated their curriculum.

I really, truly hope that I don't make a D in Databases. But if I do, I'll still get a credit so I can move on to my Senior Engineering courses.
So I'll make some progress towards my Computer Science degree no matter what.

I went to an advisor today so that I could double check some questions. And this shows that I can still move on.

I know a D isn't good. But I hate Cal 2 with the passion of 1000 suns. A D means I "kinda, sorta" get it. For Cal 2, that's enough. You never ever use that stuff when you're programming anyways.

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The Questions I Asked My Advisor

Q1.) Can I take Math 3070 instead of Math 3410? This will enable me to dodge that Calculus 2 prerequisite.

A1.) That's totally fine. Take a look at the updated course plan for Computer Science. That shows you all that you need to know. And it says that taking Math 3070 is totally fine, which does not have a Calculus 2 Prerequisite.

Q2.) If I made a D in a class and then I made a W, is the D wiped from my record? Do I have to take it again?

A2.) All a D does is withdraw you from the class. If you had a D before that, you get to keep the credit.

Q3.) The Syllabus for CSC 2400 says it needs a D or greater in Math 1920. Not a C. This had been changed, is that accurate?

A3.) The department realized several people fail Cal 2 every semester. So we decided to make it so that you only need a D to get into this class. The best way to see the prerequisites is to go to the school Online Registration Website, that is always updated.

Q4.) Do I need a C or greater in CSC 3300 to get into CSC 4610, or just a credit?

A4.) Once again, this has been changed. A D is all you need. You know what they say, D stands for degree. (laughs)

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So with that update, I'm on track to graduate. There's no need for me to take Cal 2 ever again. Fvck that class, I'm free. And no matter what, I'll be making progress towards my CS Degree by passing Databases. Slow and steady progress.
 
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Also this is totally random but I look up to 360Jeezy and I wanna be like him. A barber pencil would be a good investment for me. Only $3
 
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But now, my next test is on April 5th I believe. In Databases. I'm gonna fvcking kill this test. Which means I'm going to START EARLY and start studying today.
 

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@marmel75 could you please speak to your experience on this for @nicksaiz65
Was learning programming a struggle? Was it effortful? Did it require lots of discipline? Did you have to force yourself to do it? What was it like for you when you first were learning and starting? Please help @nicksaiz65 understand if his type of struggling and resistance and having to effort to sit down and do what is needed, matches your experience and/or is common? And/or whatever wisdom you can offer here, please...:)
Hmm...I wouldnt say it was ever a struggle. I mean at first I had no idea what i was doing, but the actual learning of what to do and how to do it and the concepts all just came relatively easy to me. It was like if you started building s building, yeah at first it wasn't much but then as you kept building and building it started to take form...that's how my understanding and learning was....at first it was very little but it kept growing day after day...almost like a snowball rolling downhill...

Honestly for lack of a better way to put it, I really believe that this is my calling in life and I was made to be a programmer. I feel lucky to be able to go to work everyday and get paid a pretty good amount of money to have fun. If programming was a woman she would be the love of my life.

Yeah there are times it gets frustrating or stressful with deadlines, but I never get tired of it. I am passionate about it, love it, pick things up very quickly, am able to see patterns in code and just have an almost natural understanding of it.

I'm not sure how else to explain it. Its kind of like my brain thinks similarly to a computer so I just understand it without having to do much to try and learn it.

Sure, learning algorithms and concepts were a little bit tough in the beginning but it never took me very long to understand it. Also when a person talks a out learning programming you cant just learn a computer language. You have to learn databases, SQL, database concepts, why you'd choose one type of database over another, interactions between programming languages and other things like visualization tools, file systems, the cloud, security, encryption, etc, etc...there is a LOT more to learn about programming than just a computer language...at least if you want to be able to do much if anything in the real world. Honestly most of this stuff are things you have to just pick up and learn on your own on the fly because you will many times be put into a situation where you have to do something you never have done before or use concepts tou have never have use before. And you have to not only figure out what to do but how to do it and nobody is going to be there holding your hand...you either are gonna sink or swim.

As far as forcing myself to do it? Never...for several years before I started working as a professional i would come home from my job and spend 4 or 5 hours a night programming. I loved it...it was the highlight of my day, every day. When I wasn't programming i was thinking about programming or reading about programming or thinking about a problem and how I needed to go about solving it. Its almost like how drawing or painting would be to an artist...programming gives you a blank canvas and you can fill it whatever way you want...its like a form of artistic expression to me...

Now I'm not going to say that there aren't people out there who are good programmers who aren't into as much as I am. There are, but they are few and far between. Most of the other programmers I have talked with are into just as much as i am and working on side projects outside of work just like I do. I have had some of the most absolutely joyful nerdy conversations of my life with other programmers and we have sat there and just talked about various things that are pretty dorky and it was like time stood still and before eithe of us knew it we had been talking for 3 hours.

Kinda like a Trekky in that way i guess...my eyes light up when i meet a fellow programmer and we can talk about nerdy things...I have embraced my inner nerd...I embrace my intellect and am proud of being a nerd or dork or geek or whatever else someone would say i am...nobody thinks that's me until they get to know me because I dont fit the profile of what most people think they look like but once they get to know me they'll eventually say something like "You really are a nerd arent you?" and laugh...but I've also found that when you are passionate about something and when you accept yourself for who you are and make no excuses for it and are comfortable in your own skin, women, and people in general are drawn to that...its like a certain energy you give out, I'm not sure how to explain it.
 
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Hmm...I wouldnt say it was ever a struggle. I mean at first I had no idea what i was doing, but the actual learning of what to do and how to do it and the concepts all just came relatively easy to me. It was like if you started building s building, yeah at first it wasn't much but then as you kept building and building it started to take form...that's how my understanding and learning was....at first it was very little but it kept growing day after day...almost like a snowball rolling downhill...

Honestly for lack of a better way to put it, I really believe that this is my calling in life and I was made to be a programmer. I feel lucky to be able to go to work everyday and get paid a pretty good amount of money to have fun. If programming was a woman she would be the love of my life.

Yeah there are times it gets frustrating or stressful with deadlines, but I never get tired of it. I am passionate about it, love it, pick things up very quickly, am able to see patterns in code and just have an almost natural understanding of it.

I'm not sure how else to explain it. Its kind of like my brain thinks similarly to a computer so I just understand it without having to do much to try and learn it.

Sure, learning algorithms and concepts were a little bit tough in the beginning but it never took me very long to understand it. Also when a person talks a out learning programming you cant just learn a computer language. You have to learn databases, SQL, database concepts, why you'd choose one type of database over another, interactions between programming languages and other things like visualization tools, file systems, the cloud, security, encryption, etc, etc...there is a LOT more to learn about programming than just a computer language...at least if you want to be able to do much if anything in the real world. Honestly most of this stuff are things you have to just pick up and learn on your own on the fly because you will many times be put into a situation where you have to do something you never have done before or use concepts tou have never have use before. And you have to not only figure out what to do but how to do it and nobody is going to be there holding your hand...you either are gonna sink or swim.

As far as forcing myself to do it? Never...for several years before I started working as a professional i would come home from my job and spend 4 or 5 hours a night programming. I loved it...it was the highlight of my day, every day. When I wasn't programming i was thinking about programming or reading about programming or thinking about a problem and how I needed to go about solving it. Its almost like how drawing or painting would be to an artist...programming gives you a blank canvas and you can fill it whatever way you want...its like a form of artistic expression to me...

Now I'm not going to say that there aren't people out there who are good programmers who aren't into as much as I am. There are, but they are few and far between. Most of the other programmers I have talked with are into just as much as i am and working on side projects outside of work just like I do. I have had some of the most absolutely joyful nerdy conversations of my life with other programmers and we have sat there and just talked about various things that are pretty dorky and it was like time stood still and before eithe of us knew it we had been talking for 3 hours.

Kinda like a Trekky in that way i guess...my eyes light up when i meet a fellow programmer and we can talk about nerdy things...I have embraced my inner nerd...I embrace my intellect and am proud of being a nerd or dork or geek or whatever else someone would say i am...nobody thinks that's me until they get to know me because I dont fit the profile of what most people think they look like but once they get to know me they'll eventually say something like "You really are a nerd arent you?" and laugh...but I've also found that when you are passionate about something and when you accept yourself for who you are and make no excuses for it and are comfortable in your own skin, women, and people in general are drawn to that...its like a certain energy you give out, I'm not sure how to explain it.
That's incredible bro. I knew you liked programming but I never realized you were this passionate about it.

I know all I do in this journal is complain about programming assignments. But I really do like this stuff. I don't want to do anything else. My purpose in life is to be a programmer/musician/composer. If I run from that, it would be akin to me running from life itself.

Really wish I had realized this my first semester of college. I was just taking classes to take classes.

But thanks for your insight. That's the kind of passion I need to have if I want to succeed. One of my favorite parts of communities such as these is that I've learned to embrace my inner nerd. I love being a geek and working on technical things like music or programming.
 
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That's incredible bro. I knew you liked programming but I never realized you were this passionate about it.

I know all I do in this journal is complain about programming assignments. But I really do like this stuff. I don't want to do anything else. My purpose in life is to be a programmer/musician/composer. If I run from that, it would be akin to me running from life itself.

Really wish I had realized this my first semester of college. I was just taking classes to take classes.

But thanks for your insight. That's the kind of passion I need to have if I want to succeed
You have to learn to focus bro...when you are in the moment with that code, nothing else matters. You don't look at clocks, worry about eating or drinking, about text messages or calls...nothing. There are times where I dont even know what time it is after I get out that state...and the clock is right on the screen!! Its like an alien abduction...you lose time and you don't know where it went...

Its you and the code and you become immersed in it...almost as if the code is an extension of you...

Like how in the Matrix Neo started having code come out of him when he become one with it? Thats what you need to strive for...the level of focus, detail andn dogged determination that you will figure out whatever it is you need to at all costs...and you dont leave that screen until you do.

That will take you far...very far. You can do anything in programming you just have to sometimes think of things differently when you get stuck. See the code in your mind...
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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You have to learn to focus bro...when you are in the moment with that code, nothing else matters. You don't look at clocks, worry about eating or drinking, about text messages or calls...nothing. There are times where I dont even know what time it is after I get out that state...and the clock is right on the screen!! Its like an alien abduction...you lose time and you don't know where it went...

Its you and the code and you become immersed in it...almost as if the code is an extension of you...

Like how in the Matrix Neo started having code come out of him when he become one with it? Thats what you need to strive for...the level of focus, detail andn dogged determination that you will figure out whatever it is you need to at all costs...and you dont leave that screen until you do.

That will take you far...very far. You can do anything in programming you just have to sometimes think of things differently when you get stuck. See the code in your mind...
I'll take that to heart. We have one program left in Databases. I'll test my focus with that.
 

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Grade Check, Date Today

I just got my Test 2 back in Databases. 70. Yeahhhh boi. So it turns out I CAN do this shyt after all. I'm gonna pass this class and make some progress towards my Computer Science Degree!

Now how well I pass the class depends on my next grades. If I kill it, I can make a C. That would be excellent, it would make my semester GPA pretty decent.

So for now, I'm grinding towards knocking out that Test 3. It is indeed on April 5th, a Friday. I'd like to make a 100 on it. That's a week out. Plenty of time for me to study for this test.

As for how I'm going to spend my day today... mostly studying, cleaning my room, practicing violin, brushing, working out(one of my dreams was to finish the Podrunner series) and just filling out paperwork.

When I need to go eat, I'll be going on a date today to kill two birds with one stone. With that girl who hit me up first was asking if I wanted to go out and eat. I'm trying to go on a date and then fvck, not go on some friendly excursion. So it's a win win for me though. If she brings friends: I know her interest level is low, she doesn't see me as a sexual prospect, and she's trying to use me for free attention. But I still get to go out and get a nice meal before I go back to working on my purpose. On top of that, I have another girl lined up who wants to go out with me who is sending me winky faces and stuff like that. And she was the one who asked me to go out too. So I'm not putting all my eggs in one basket. All I have to do is shut up, not say/do anything stupid, and get that girl out on a date.

Now if she doesn't bring friends, I can assume that she's interested and I'll bring her back to my place to fvck. No bullshyt like the last time.

I'll have a report for you guys on both my studying and this date. I also need to remind myself how to act on a first date.

Crazy how everything Pook says is true. I came here to fix my love life, but now I'm re-examining my entire life.
 

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I just got my Test 2 back in Databases. 70. Yeahhhh boi. So it turns out I CAN do this shyt after all.
Now how well I pass the class depends on my next grades. If I kill it, I can make a C.
LMAO!
 

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What I mean by that is if I do really well on all the remaining assignments, my overall average will be around a 76.

Idk if you've ever taken an Upper Division CSC Class, but the shyt's hard. No hate please.

I saw what you said in that other thread about the Holocaust as well. Between that and trying to insinuate that I'm like Elliot Rodger... Blocked. Goodbye
 
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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