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I'll just put it out of my mind and focus on Databases for now.
Exactly this ^^^^^
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I'll just put it out of my mind and focus on Databases for now.
Good luck man. Took me long enough to figure the **** out. Even when I became attractive enough to where women would gasp I still had to deprogram all the pua stuff that had led me to being socially awkward. I was the guy that studied philosophy and systems, and looked down on my "basic" peers at a young age.I'm not fat fat persay. I have a good bit of muscle on me from my Stronglifts 5x5 days and people comment on how I look buff regularly.
The issue is I've gotten extremely sloppy with my diet, I lost every ab I had, and the love handles are coming in. The muscles are still there. But it's under a layer of fat and I'm out of shape too. Not good for my Game in the slightest.
If I can just cut down and get a six pack I'm sure my Game would improve by 1-2 levels without even doing a single approach.
Honestly bro, not to be pessimistic or whiny, but my dreams of being a manwh0re in college might be killed. I realized a lot of stuff so late. I don't know, I'll do my best though. If I can just get 10 Lays total by the time I graduate college I'd be happy with that. Then I can be a wh0re as an adult once I graduate as a PUA and all that
Right. Are you kind of a natural? I had zero social skills before I discovered this stuff so that's why I gravitate so much towards PUA. It tells me what I need to say and do to sleep with a girl when I would have no idea otherwise.Good luck man. Took me long enough to figure the **** out. Even when I became attractive enough to where women would gasp I still had to deprogram all the pua stuff that had led me to being socially awkward. I was the guy that studied philosophy and systems, and looked down on my "basic" peers at a young age.
Im a helpful person by nature but also selfish if the expense affects me enough. I wish I could just give you and others my 'solution', but doing so would put me in a disadvantage. You must find your own answer. The pareto principle in dating appears to be a decent estimate on who's making it, thus the rise of inceldom and harems. It also looks like it's getting harder to become a beta buxx these days with female independence. I admire the guys on here still trying while many men are giving up. The answer is out there.
The old days of alpha fux and cucked orbiters are returning as social controls are further diminished. If it takes you 10 years to be alpha fux, so be it. And be careful of those that give you vague advice such as 'be masculine bro'. Remember most third party advice will come from betas trying to imitate alphas so the ideas of masculinity will probably be romanticized. Personally, I don't care what's masculine or feminine, just whatever works.
SOMETIMES I JUST WANT TO GO BACK TO BEING A BETA B!TCH.Man y'all... Sometimes I just want to go back to the Dr. Nerdlove PUA Style Game again. Where I could text them, send humorous messages, use social media, flirt on the first date and all
https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/what-is-game.258250/#post-262902I don't even know which style of Game I want to do anymore. Kinda feel stuck.
Haha at least until I try different stuff out.https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/what-is-game.258250/#post-262902
Tbh I feel like answering this question is futile because soon you'll ask it again try what you think is best. It seems you feel very strongly about being able to connect this way, do it. If it burns you then at least you know not to play with fire.
Yeah I remember the video. Big bro was spitting straight heat that day.Haha at least until I try different stuff out.
AMS had a video about how there's no one right way to Game... It's just not as fun for me to ignore a girl for ten days to not be seen as needy. Even if all I did was Game with the Nerdlove model and work on myself I would see improvement! So I'll give it a shot and learn a bit from everyone. Even AMS was like you can get a girl being flirty and all that if you want
Yeah man. I think this is the direction I'm gonna take my Game for good. Not that I can't learn a lot from AMS. But I always envisioned myself as a Don Juan smooth Red Pilled PUA type once this journey is said and done. I think the Nerdlove path would help me with that. SS and AMS can help me make sure I don't get jerked around by a woman. Lots from every source but I know about what I want to be.Yeah I remember the video. Big bro was spitting straight heat that day.
What's up fellas hahaha
Yea, but more like I'd undone the pua programming and reflected on my 'natural' tendencies that had led me somewhere over the past 5 or so years. In this way, I've become a critical natural, one that is self-aware. The solution itself doesn't have some steep learning curve, it's just do or don't, and realizing certain things. It feels good to know exactly what to do after sooo much stressful infield work. Tbh I probably could have slayed much earlier but I wanted to know the Why and How's on slaying so there's certainty and efficiency. The cold hard facts, no unjustifiable assumptions or uncontrolled variables(as much as possible), no lacking perspectives or irrelevant fluff. Just a laser-focused mission on this particular problem-set. Being a logician drove me toward precision. I would be lying if I said this didn't keep me up at night. Again, if anyone tells you they've found a solution, I would be surprised that they would share it outside of money. I've seen noone build an accurate product yet. I'm kind of glad too as it gives me advantage for now.Right. Are you kind of a natural? I had zero social skills before I discovered this stuff so that's why I gravitate so much towards PUA. It tells me what I need to say and do to sleep with a girl when I would have no idea otherwise.
I will literally never give up until I solve this issue. I would like to fvck around a bit more in college though.
Or just code instead of "studying" itEffective Studying Tactic
A big part of the reason I struggle is that I'm just exhausted. If I'm tired but I don't have time to sleep because I have to study: I'll take a 30 minute to 1 hour nap and then set a loud ass alarm. Works like a charm every time and it keeps me pushing.
Also I know some people clown Motorola, but having a phone that doesn't die every 15 seconds is such a Godsend!
I'm more referring to the Math homework and non coding classes. I've been doing lots of practice implementation for Databases latelyOr just code instead of "studying" it