http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3VXXXX9iVPI - Thought this was interesting. Can't say I agree with all of her points, but on the whole, its not bad. Thoughts?
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Nice Guys Do Not Finish Last
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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Let me sum it up for you:
She's saying looks matter to girls and that they want to date their equals or better looks wise. She's also saying guys shouldn't just pay attention to the looks of girls. She's making it sound like good-looking girls are terrible. Why? She wants a bigger population of males to herself. She also mentions that she'd breakup with a guy if he was unemployed for a year. This is further proof that a woman's love is conditional.
Would you breakup with your girlfriend if she was unemployed for a year? Nope.
She's saying looks matter to girls and that they want to date their equals or better looks wise. She's also saying guys shouldn't just pay attention to the looks of girls. She's making it sound like good-looking girls are terrible. Why? She wants a bigger population of males to herself. She also mentions that she'd breakup with a guy if he was unemployed for a year. This is further proof that a woman's love is conditional.
Would you breakup with your girlfriend if she was unemployed for a year? Nope.
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Know this, women give the worst advice about women. That is all.
HyperAnalyze
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Getting advice from a woman is like getting advice from a burglar on how to keep your home secure.JohnChops said:
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4north1side2 said:
Sometimes it's hard finding a job in today's economy. It took a couple people I know 8-12 months to find jobs and finally get hired. They were also constantly always looking for jobs.
Btw, If I were married I'd prefer a stay at home wife to take care of the kids, clean, and cook. If she's not gonna do that, don't see the point to marriage.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
VladPatton
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2:52...that's all I could take of that rambling twit.
I wonder how many guys she rejected during her high school days while she was growing up as a ''popular girl''. Jenna Marbles. Seriously?
I wonder how many guys she rejected during her high school days while she was growing up as a ''popular girl''. Jenna Marbles. Seriously?
Groverz
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This is usually true, for tons of reasons including:JohnChops said:
(1) They have no experience dating women
(2) They often don't know what they want
(3) Even when they WANT something, giving it to them often LOWERS your chances (because what they want is to find A GUY, not to find you).
(3) is a key point many men do not realize. Women want you to take it slow and do all this other really bad dating strategy not to increase your chances with her but to delay her having to make a choice so she can explore other options etc.
As for why nice guys do not necessarily finish last.. it's quite simple really, it isn't that nice guys finish last, it is that guys who are not SEXUAL finish last. You have to be sexual.
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^^^Read this again!!!^^^
Women give the worst advice on dating women.
You don't ask Pokémon how to catch them, you ask someone who's great at catching them.
Women give the worst advice on dating women.
You don't ask Pokémon how to catch them, you ask someone who's great at catching them.
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applegoo said:
hell yeah i would. and i have. unemployed girl means only trouble. when girls have too much time on their hands, they will be bored. and girls chase away boredom with some good old drama. i don't need no drama.
i'd go as far as to say i wouldn't even consider LTR'ing a girl without job (except if she is a student)
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CrimsonPanther said:
My ex was less drama when she was unemployed lol. It's all relative.
Great thread! Though I have to say to HyperAnalyze asking a burgler how to secure your home probably would be a good idea, he'd know the trade secrets you should look at. Like how Hannibal helped the cop in Silence of the Lambs. Bad example but I know what you mean 
loved the Pokemon quote haha
JoshSway has it down to a tee, basically women don't understand themselves, never mind their gender as a whole. I avoided telling a girl I was trying to f*ck that I was f*cking someone else as I was putting myself in her position. If I found out a girl was flirting with me and she was f*cking another guy I'd drop her like a stone (usually), whereas when she did find out she couldn't get my c*ck inside her soon enough.
Strange creatures.
loved the Pokemon quote haha JoshSway has it down to a tee, basically women don't understand themselves, never mind their gender as a whole. I avoided telling a girl I was trying to f*ck that I was f*cking someone else as I was putting myself in her position. If I found out a girl was flirting with me and she was f*cking another guy I'd drop her like a stone (usually), whereas when she did find out she couldn't get my c*ck inside her soon enough.
Strange creatures.
She's right.
If you're not getting laid AT ALL, it's NOT because you're too nice. It's may actually be because, among other possible things, you're an azzhole.
But, in addition, it's probably because you're too poor, too boring, too needy, or too unattractive. In addition to being an azzhole.
If you're not getting laid AT ALL, it's NOT because you're too nice. It's may actually be because, among other possible things, you're an azzhole.
But, in addition, it's probably because you're too poor, too boring, too needy, or too unattractive. In addition to being an azzhole.