"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Nice guy BETAS finish last
- Thread starter Poon King
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Tictac
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Aesthetix29
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Do you have anything intelligent to add that can help men?
Doesn't seem like it. Maybe you should go do something constructive since you offer nothing here.
Tictac
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Your low grade whining does not require anything resembling intelligence to respond to.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Yet you continue to respond. You look and sound stupid.
foreverAFC
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btw is poon king that guy who sounds like all of his knowledge about dating and relationships comes from TV shows and movies like Saved by the Bell and American Pie, cause thats what it sounds like with this lame fake video being presented as how guys are supposed to act/approach women
Building_and_Loan
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Beat me to it. Not that stuff like this hasn't happened before, but this video is 100% fake. You can just tell by the girls' responses and their tone.
Confidence and acting like this would get you somewhere in a frat house or house party with drunk college chicks, but not cold approaching in public by a guy that isn't all that attractive.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The theory is right, but the technique is rough. To cold approach a girl in the street, where she isn't drunk and you are not in a bar setting, and ask her straight up "are you a slut?" probably wouldn't work in real life.
But the theory is right. They are just good for sex, making babies, and (if they are rich) spending money on you. To make them anything more than that, you are asking for trouble.
usernamedox11
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imo, the girls could tell he has a lack of options and thus an undesirable beta by him only being brave enough to ask for just a number. clearly the girls psychoanalyzed him and instantly recognized he was a beta with a lack of experience and options by his approach and (fake video i know) gave their number out of sympathy for the beta and on the off chance they would use him for beta bux.
just my 2 cents on it
You live in a fantasy world if you believe that.
A REAL alpha does whatever the f*ck he wants.
usernamedox11
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no a real alpha follows the 'alpha code bible, the step by step process to becoming a real alpha male" written by William F. Buckley, Jr. Would you like the link to purchase on amazon?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Tenacity
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Remember, we are ON THE SAME TEAM here.
NSX-R
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What we have is : confidence, never giving an f- , having fun.
All these things together have a positive and reflective effect which attracts the female on you.
Now depending on what purpose you have, I would try these tactics only if i want a quick fck session with the chick.
If you want something more this is not a good way to get a chick .
Last but not least you should check out all these chicks. They were girls who were wearing nothing so it's a big indicator that they were looking for the same thing as these guys.
Personal experience has taught me that cold approaches never work the same and you should never try the same trick more than once because you will feel bored after a while and chicks never respond the same. Having a big variety of picking up tactics will make you a master at it.