"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Nice guy BETAS finish last
- Thread starter Poon King
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Tictac
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Aesthetix29
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Do you have anything intelligent to add that can help men?
Doesn't seem like it. Maybe you should go do something constructive since you offer nothing here.
Tictac
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Your low grade whining does not require anything resembling intelligence to respond to.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yet you continue to respond. You look and sound stupid.
foreverAFC
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btw is poon king that guy who sounds like all of his knowledge about dating and relationships comes from TV shows and movies like Saved by the Bell and American Pie, cause thats what it sounds like with this lame fake video being presented as how guys are supposed to act/approach women
Building_and_Loan
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Beat me to it. Not that stuff like this hasn't happened before, but this video is 100% fake. You can just tell by the girls' responses and their tone.
Confidence and acting like this would get you somewhere in a frat house or house party with drunk college chicks, but not cold approaching in public by a guy that isn't all that attractive.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
The theory is right, but the technique is rough. To cold approach a girl in the street, where she isn't drunk and you are not in a bar setting, and ask her straight up "are you a slut?" probably wouldn't work in real life.
But the theory is right. They are just good for sex, making babies, and (if they are rich) spending money on you. To make them anything more than that, you are asking for trouble.
usernamedox11
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imo, the girls could tell he has a lack of options and thus an undesirable beta by him only being brave enough to ask for just a number. clearly the girls psychoanalyzed him and instantly recognized he was a beta with a lack of experience and options by his approach and (fake video i know) gave their number out of sympathy for the beta and on the off chance they would use him for beta bux.
just my 2 cents on it
You live in a fantasy world if you believe that.
A REAL alpha does whatever the f*ck he wants.
usernamedox11
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no a real alpha follows the 'alpha code bible, the step by step process to becoming a real alpha male" written by William F. Buckley, Jr. Would you like the link to purchase on amazon?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Remember, we are ON THE SAME TEAM here.
NSX-R
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What we have is : confidence, never giving an f- , having fun.
All these things together have a positive and reflective effect which attracts the female on you.
Now depending on what purpose you have, I would try these tactics only if i want a quick fck session with the chick.
If you want something more this is not a good way to get a chick .
Last but not least you should check out all these chicks. They were girls who were wearing nothing so it's a big indicator that they were looking for the same thing as these guys.
Personal experience has taught me that cold approaches never work the same and you should never try the same trick more than once because you will feel bored after a while and chicks never respond the same. Having a big variety of picking up tactics will make you a master at it.