NZ guy212
Don Juan
Have we got DJ's from NZ Here?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
New Zealand DJ's
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Walden
Master Don Juan
Auckland City , where u at?
jonny football hero
Master Don Juan
I know this has got nothing to do with anything but...........what is New Zealand like?
I always wanted to go, and i might do a gap year there
I always wanted to go, and i might do a gap year there
NZ guy212
Don Juan
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To the other guy nz's not bad but you may not be used to the tempatures we experiance. They are kind of mild.
To the other guy nz's not bad but you may not be used to the tempatures we experiance. They are kind of mild.
jonny football hero
Master Don Juan
dude i'm from the u.k , if there's one thing us brits know how to do it's be used to cold weather.
(we also rule at rugby)
(we also rule at rugby)
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Walden
Master Don Juan
yeah we played like a bunch of big wet gaping pu$$ies on saturday, no wonder John Mitchells head looks like a ****oris.
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Banned
AUSSIE AUSSIE AUSSIE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
IrReSiStIbLe
Senior Don Juan
OI OI OI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
NZ guy212
Don Juan
Your boy don't have the cup either
BeerConnoisseur
Don Juan
Auckland here, well more north like Rodney District.
Anyone know some good places in central Auckland to pull chicks? I'm bored with the waterfront, nothing but ice-cold b****es!
Anyone know some good places in central Auckland to pull chicks? I'm bored with the waterfront, nothing but ice-cold b****es!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Walden
Master Don Juan
Did pretty good at Deschlers and Rakinos saturday night. Khuja lounge is also good.
Playhouse and Globe are always packed with backpackers (we got to playhose as it was closing tho'
).
Playhouse and Globe are always packed with backpackers (we got to playhose as it was closing tho'
).BeerConnoisseur
Don Juan
Thanks mate. Might try the Globe this weekend amongst a few other places!
Haven't heard of Deschlers and Rakinos are they clubs or pubs?
Haven't heard of Deschlers and Rakinos are they clubs or pubs?
BeerConnoisseur
Don Juan
Just wondering, has anyone had any luck at Leftfields(now Float)?
Walden
Master Don Juan
Deschlers and Rakinos are jazz bars on high street. Expensive but high class clam (if that's your bag).
Float's okay on a Thursday night but I find it too loud to get any real DJing on otherwise.I guess it suits well if your style is "grind as many chicks as you can and try to score any that grind back" in whcih case Voodoo lounge is excellent (full of NASTY girls) I guess I'm getting a bit old for rolling that way tho
Have been thinking about that new casino at sky city but I suspect it'll be full of shorekids in cheap suits.
Float's okay on a Thursday night but I find it too loud to get any real DJing on otherwise.I guess it suits well if your style is "grind as many chicks as you can and try to score any that grind back" in whcih case Voodoo lounge is excellent (full of NASTY girls) I guess I'm getting a bit old for rolling that way tho
Have been thinking about that new casino at sky city but I suspect it'll be full of shorekids in cheap suits.
Walden
Master Don Juan
Any of you guys in Central over the weekend , my saturday morning Nanpa run is on again so PM me.
Mike.
Mike.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
BeerConnoisseur
Don Juan
I will most likely be downtown Saturday night
What is this Nanpa run?!? Do explain
What is this Nanpa run?!? Do explain
Walden
Master Don Juan
Nanpa is a Japanese word I think. It's basically where guys get together and go do pickups at the mall or subway or weherever rather than in bars and stuff. I usually go cubbing friday night and go do som street pickups saturday morning (I got one number this afternnoon but my PDA ate it . ).
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