"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Auckland City , where u at?
 

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I know this has got nothing to do with anything but...........what is New Zealand like?
I always wanted to go, and i might do a gap year there
 

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chch

To the other guy nz's not bad but you may not be used to the tempatures we experiance. They are kind of mild.
 

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dude i'm from the u.k , if there's one thing us brits know how to do it's be used to cold weather.
(we also rule at rugby)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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yeah we played like a bunch of big wet gaping pu$$ies on saturday, no wonder John Mitchells head looks like a ****oris.
 

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Auckland here, well more north like Rodney District.
Anyone know some good places in central Auckland to pull chicks? I'm bored with the waterfront, nothing but ice-cold b****es!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Did pretty good at Deschlers and Rakinos saturday night. Khuja lounge is also good.

Playhouse and Globe are always packed with backpackers (we got to playhose as it was closing tho' :( ).
 

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Thanks mate. Might try the Globe this weekend amongst a few other places!
Haven't heard of Deschlers and Rakinos are they clubs or pubs?
 

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Deschlers and Rakinos are jazz bars on high street. Expensive but high class clam (if that's your bag).

Float's okay on a Thursday night but I find it too loud to get any real DJing on otherwise.I guess it suits well if your style is "grind as many chicks as you can and try to score any that grind back" in whcih case Voodoo lounge is excellent (full of NASTY girls) I guess I'm getting a bit old for rolling that way tho :D

Have been thinking about that new casino at sky city but I suspect it'll be full of shorekids in cheap suits.
 

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Any of you guys in Central over the weekend , my saturday morning Nanpa run is on again so PM me.

Mike.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nanpa is a Japanese word I think. It's basically where guys get together and go do pickups at the mall or subway or weherever rather than in bars and stuff. I usually go cubbing friday night and go do som street pickups saturday morning (I got one number this afternnoon but my PDA ate it .:mad: ).
 
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