NZ guy212
Don Juan
Have we got DJ's from NZ Here?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Walden
Master Don Juan
Auckland City , where u at?
jonny football hero
Master Don Juan
I know this has got nothing to do with anything but...........what is New Zealand like?
I always wanted to go, and i might do a gap year there
I always wanted to go, and i might do a gap year there
NZ guy212
Don Juan
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To the other guy nz's not bad but you may not be used to the tempatures we experiance. They are kind of mild.
To the other guy nz's not bad but you may not be used to the tempatures we experiance. They are kind of mild.
jonny football hero
Master Don Juan
dude i'm from the u.k , if there's one thing us brits know how to do it's be used to cold weather.
(we also rule at rugby)
(we also rule at rugby)
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Walden
Master Don Juan
yeah we played like a bunch of big wet gaping pu$$ies on saturday, no wonder John Mitchells head looks like a ****oris.
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AUSSIE AUSSIE AUSSIE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
IrReSiStIbLe
Senior Don Juan
OI OI OI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
NZ guy212
Don Juan
Your boy don't have the cup either
BeerConnoisseur
Don Juan
Auckland here, well more north like Rodney District.
Anyone know some good places in central Auckland to pull chicks? I'm bored with the waterfront, nothing but ice-cold b****es!
Anyone know some good places in central Auckland to pull chicks? I'm bored with the waterfront, nothing but ice-cold b****es!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Walden
Master Don Juan
Did pretty good at Deschlers and Rakinos saturday night. Khuja lounge is also good.
Playhouse and Globe are always packed with backpackers (we got to playhose as it was closing tho'
).
Playhouse and Globe are always packed with backpackers (we got to playhose as it was closing tho'
).BeerConnoisseur
Don Juan
Thanks mate. Might try the Globe this weekend amongst a few other places!
Haven't heard of Deschlers and Rakinos are they clubs or pubs?
Haven't heard of Deschlers and Rakinos are they clubs or pubs?
BeerConnoisseur
Don Juan
Just wondering, has anyone had any luck at Leftfields(now Float)?
Walden
Master Don Juan
Deschlers and Rakinos are jazz bars on high street. Expensive but high class clam (if that's your bag).
Float's okay on a Thursday night but I find it too loud to get any real DJing on otherwise.I guess it suits well if your style is "grind as many chicks as you can and try to score any that grind back" in whcih case Voodoo lounge is excellent (full of NASTY girls) I guess I'm getting a bit old for rolling that way tho
Have been thinking about that new casino at sky city but I suspect it'll be full of shorekids in cheap suits.
Float's okay on a Thursday night but I find it too loud to get any real DJing on otherwise.I guess it suits well if your style is "grind as many chicks as you can and try to score any that grind back" in whcih case Voodoo lounge is excellent (full of NASTY girls) I guess I'm getting a bit old for rolling that way tho
Have been thinking about that new casino at sky city but I suspect it'll be full of shorekids in cheap suits.
Walden
Master Don Juan
Any of you guys in Central over the weekend , my saturday morning Nanpa run is on again so PM me.
Mike.
Mike.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
BeerConnoisseur
Don Juan
I will most likely be downtown Saturday night
What is this Nanpa run?!? Do explain
What is this Nanpa run?!? Do explain
Walden
Master Don Juan
Nanpa is a Japanese word I think. It's basically where guys get together and go do pickups at the mall or subway or weherever rather than in bars and stuff. I usually go cubbing friday night and go do som street pickups saturday morning (I got one number this afternnoon but my PDA ate it . ).
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