NZ guy212
Don Juan
Have we got DJ's from NZ Here?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
New Zealand DJ's
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Walden
Master Don Juan
Auckland City , where u at?
jonny football hero
Master Don Juan
I know this has got nothing to do with anything but...........what is New Zealand like?
I always wanted to go, and i might do a gap year there
I always wanted to go, and i might do a gap year there
NZ guy212
Don Juan
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To the other guy nz's not bad but you may not be used to the tempatures we experiance. They are kind of mild.
To the other guy nz's not bad but you may not be used to the tempatures we experiance. They are kind of mild.
jonny football hero
Master Don Juan
dude i'm from the u.k , if there's one thing us brits know how to do it's be used to cold weather.
(we also rule at rugby)
(we also rule at rugby)
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Walden
Master Don Juan
yeah we played like a bunch of big wet gaping pu$$ies on saturday, no wonder John Mitchells head looks like a ****oris.
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Banned
AUSSIE AUSSIE AUSSIE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
IrReSiStIbLe
Senior Don Juan
OI OI OI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
NZ guy212
Don Juan
Your boy don't have the cup either
BeerConnoisseur
Don Juan
Auckland here, well more north like Rodney District.
Anyone know some good places in central Auckland to pull chicks? I'm bored with the waterfront, nothing but ice-cold b****es!
Anyone know some good places in central Auckland to pull chicks? I'm bored with the waterfront, nothing but ice-cold b****es!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Walden
Master Don Juan
Did pretty good at Deschlers and Rakinos saturday night. Khuja lounge is also good.
Playhouse and Globe are always packed with backpackers (we got to playhose as it was closing tho'
).
Playhouse and Globe are always packed with backpackers (we got to playhose as it was closing tho'
).BeerConnoisseur
Don Juan
Thanks mate. Might try the Globe this weekend amongst a few other places!
Haven't heard of Deschlers and Rakinos are they clubs or pubs?
Haven't heard of Deschlers and Rakinos are they clubs or pubs?
BeerConnoisseur
Don Juan
Just wondering, has anyone had any luck at Leftfields(now Float)?
Walden
Master Don Juan
Deschlers and Rakinos are jazz bars on high street. Expensive but high class clam (if that's your bag).
Float's okay on a Thursday night but I find it too loud to get any real DJing on otherwise.I guess it suits well if your style is "grind as many chicks as you can and try to score any that grind back" in whcih case Voodoo lounge is excellent (full of NASTY girls) I guess I'm getting a bit old for rolling that way tho
Have been thinking about that new casino at sky city but I suspect it'll be full of shorekids in cheap suits.
Float's okay on a Thursday night but I find it too loud to get any real DJing on otherwise.I guess it suits well if your style is "grind as many chicks as you can and try to score any that grind back" in whcih case Voodoo lounge is excellent (full of NASTY girls) I guess I'm getting a bit old for rolling that way tho
Have been thinking about that new casino at sky city but I suspect it'll be full of shorekids in cheap suits.
Walden
Master Don Juan
Any of you guys in Central over the weekend , my saturday morning Nanpa run is on again so PM me.
Mike.
Mike.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
BeerConnoisseur
Don Juan
I will most likely be downtown Saturday night
What is this Nanpa run?!? Do explain
What is this Nanpa run?!? Do explain
Walden
Master Don Juan
Nanpa is a Japanese word I think. It's basically where guys get together and go do pickups at the mall or subway or weherever rather than in bars and stuff. I usually go cubbing friday night and go do som street pickups saturday morning (I got one number this afternnoon but my PDA ate it . ).
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