forcerecon01
Master Don Juan
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- Dec 14, 2019
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What are your New Years resolutions this coming year? Anything related to women at all? Mine is to lose weight.
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Cool man! sounds like good exercise too lolHave at least one 3some per week.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Awesome list good luck with your work outs too-10% bodyfat max
-save more money
-expand my own business while working more hours
- redecorate my house
-stop smoking( weed)
-no more alcohol (or WAY less at least)
-more living by my own law
-seduce as much women as possible
-30 pullups in a row, 100 push ups in row and 200lbs bench
-simply more discipline
- yeah ,and pimp my garden up some more
Nice.....Been grinding hard the past 6 months, really took the "get better not bitter" mindset and ran with it.
Some goals in mind for 2023.
-Move out by the time i'm 26
-Put a dent in a certain bucket list
-Get better at game
-Get my side hustles off the backburner
-Perfect my planche (not plank)
-Work towards consecutive muscle ups
-join a boxing gym
-Start Jiu jitsu...again
-Prioritizing my needs, Mental point of origin
-Go on a solo vacation
-Quit being a *****
Go Aussies!-Quit Alcohol 100% (it's not healthy)
-Be consistent with my gym routine and lower my body fat
-Get a location independent source of income that's enough to sustain me, and allow me to finally leave Australia
-Find a woman worth committing to that I have a genuine connection with
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Good on you. Vikings kick assI got the weight room down, but my goal is to grow a beard. I can’t grow almost any facial hair right now (aside from a faint, blonde mustache), so I’m going to use Minoxidil and a microneedle roller for the best attempt. The goal is just to be consistent over a year and see what happens. Hopefully I turn into a viking.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I have Blue Cross Blue Shield for health insurance. They have a program you join through the insurance, and you get a little paper card and access to a phone app. With those, you can go to a whole list of different gyms and not pay the gym. The gym bills the insurance per each of your visits. Going to Planet Fitness right now. When that gets boring, I can go back to Golds. Or even some mom and pop local gyms take it. It's pretty nice!!None. If you have to wait to New Years to come up with something you want to do you probably aren't going to stick with it very long.
Look at all the people who get gym memberships that go unused for months after early February.
I have the same program. It’s great. You can sample different gyms and times to get the workout you want and look for where the hottest women go. You can just comment on their shirt (whatever logo or location is on it), or ask them to spot you on the bench press. Then just chat them up and tease them from there, and close.I have Blue Cross Blue Shield for health insurance. They have a program you join through the insurance, and you get a little paper card and access to a phone app. With those, you can go to a whole list of different gyms and not pay the gym. The gym bills the insurance per each of your visits. Going to Planet Fitness right now. When that gets boring, I can go back to Golds. Or even some mom and pop local gyms take it. It's pretty nice!!
Lieutenant? Are you gonna do some administrative work now?- More cardio work at the gym
- At least two new professional certifications
- Upgrade ham radio license to Extra class
- Get rid of some old crap I don't use anymore
- Get promoted to Lieutenant as a cop
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.