forcerecon01
Master Don Juan
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What are your New Years resolutions this coming year? Anything related to women at all? Mine is to lose weight.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Cool man! sounds like good exercise too lolHave at least one 3some per week.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Awesome list good luck with your work outs too-10% bodyfat max
-save more money
-expand my own business while working more hours
- redecorate my house
-stop smoking( weed)
-no more alcohol (or WAY less at least)
-more living by my own law
-seduce as much women as possible
-30 pullups in a row, 100 push ups in row and 200lbs bench
-simply more discipline
- yeah ,and pimp my garden up some more
Nice.....Been grinding hard the past 6 months, really took the "get better not bitter" mindset and ran with it.
Some goals in mind for 2023.
-Move out by the time i'm 26
-Put a dent in a certain bucket list
-Get better at game
-Get my side hustles off the backburner
-Perfect my planche (not plank)
-Work towards consecutive muscle ups
-join a boxing gym
-Start Jiu jitsu...again
-Prioritizing my needs, Mental point of origin
-Go on a solo vacation
-Quit being a *****
Go Aussies!-Quit Alcohol 100% (it's not healthy)
-Be consistent with my gym routine and lower my body fat
-Get a location independent source of income that's enough to sustain me, and allow me to finally leave Australia
-Find a woman worth committing to that I have a genuine connection with
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Good on you. Vikings kick assI got the weight room down, but my goal is to grow a beard. I can’t grow almost any facial hair right now (aside from a faint, blonde mustache), so I’m going to use Minoxidil and a microneedle roller for the best attempt. The goal is just to be consistent over a year and see what happens. Hopefully I turn into a viking.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I have Blue Cross Blue Shield for health insurance. They have a program you join through the insurance, and you get a little paper card and access to a phone app. With those, you can go to a whole list of different gyms and not pay the gym. The gym bills the insurance per each of your visits. Going to Planet Fitness right now. When that gets boring, I can go back to Golds. Or even some mom and pop local gyms take it. It's pretty nice!!None. If you have to wait to New Years to come up with something you want to do you probably aren't going to stick with it very long.
Look at all the people who get gym memberships that go unused for months after early February.
I have the same program. It’s great. You can sample different gyms and times to get the workout you want and look for where the hottest women go. You can just comment on their shirt (whatever logo or location is on it), or ask them to spot you on the bench press. Then just chat them up and tease them from there, and close.I have Blue Cross Blue Shield for health insurance. They have a program you join through the insurance, and you get a little paper card and access to a phone app. With those, you can go to a whole list of different gyms and not pay the gym. The gym bills the insurance per each of your visits. Going to Planet Fitness right now. When that gets boring, I can go back to Golds. Or even some mom and pop local gyms take it. It's pretty nice!!
Lieutenant? Are you gonna do some administrative work now?- More cardio work at the gym
- At least two new professional certifications
- Upgrade ham radio license to Extra class
- Get rid of some old crap I don't use anymore
- Get promoted to Lieutenant as a cop
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.