forcerecon01
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 14, 2019
- Messages
- 863
- Reaction score
- 493
- Age
- 47
What are your New Years resolutions this coming year? Anything related to women at all? Mine is to lose weight.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Cool man! sounds like good exercise too lolHave at least one 3some per week.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Awesome list good luck with your work outs too-10% bodyfat max
-save more money
-expand my own business while working more hours
- redecorate my house
-stop smoking( weed)
-no more alcohol (or WAY less at least)
-more living by my own law
-seduce as much women as possible
-30 pullups in a row, 100 push ups in row and 200lbs bench
-simply more discipline
- yeah ,and pimp my garden up some more
Nice.....Been grinding hard the past 6 months, really took the "get better not bitter" mindset and ran with it.
Some goals in mind for 2023.
-Move out by the time i'm 26
-Put a dent in a certain bucket list
-Get better at game
-Get my side hustles off the backburner
-Perfect my planche (not plank)
-Work towards consecutive muscle ups
-join a boxing gym
-Start Jiu jitsu...again
-Prioritizing my needs, Mental point of origin
-Go on a solo vacation
-Quit being a *****
Go Aussies!-Quit Alcohol 100% (it's not healthy)
-Be consistent with my gym routine and lower my body fat
-Get a location independent source of income that's enough to sustain me, and allow me to finally leave Australia
-Find a woman worth committing to that I have a genuine connection with
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Good on you. Vikings kick assI got the weight room down, but my goal is to grow a beard. I can’t grow almost any facial hair right now (aside from a faint, blonde mustache), so I’m going to use Minoxidil and a microneedle roller for the best attempt. The goal is just to be consistent over a year and see what happens. Hopefully I turn into a viking.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I have Blue Cross Blue Shield for health insurance. They have a program you join through the insurance, and you get a little paper card and access to a phone app. With those, you can go to a whole list of different gyms and not pay the gym. The gym bills the insurance per each of your visits. Going to Planet Fitness right now. When that gets boring, I can go back to Golds. Or even some mom and pop local gyms take it. It's pretty nice!!None. If you have to wait to New Years to come up with something you want to do you probably aren't going to stick with it very long.
Look at all the people who get gym memberships that go unused for months after early February.
I have the same program. It’s great. You can sample different gyms and times to get the workout you want and look for where the hottest women go. You can just comment on their shirt (whatever logo or location is on it), or ask them to spot you on the bench press. Then just chat them up and tease them from there, and close.I have Blue Cross Blue Shield for health insurance. They have a program you join through the insurance, and you get a little paper card and access to a phone app. With those, you can go to a whole list of different gyms and not pay the gym. The gym bills the insurance per each of your visits. Going to Planet Fitness right now. When that gets boring, I can go back to Golds. Or even some mom and pop local gyms take it. It's pretty nice!!
Lieutenant? Are you gonna do some administrative work now?- More cardio work at the gym
- At least two new professional certifications
- Upgrade ham radio license to Extra class
- Get rid of some old crap I don't use anymore
- Get promoted to Lieutenant as a cop
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.