"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I dont lift for sarcopenia.

I should have been clear: I havent stopped lifting weights or permanently stopped drinking and partying. Some of these things I have kept around because there are, in fact, more women for me currently lol
Never stop
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I would rather be a good golfer, which I also enjoy. I will never be a great golfer as long as I lift to the extent I do. Lifting also destroyed my pickup basketball game. There are tradeoffs.
The reason I say never stop is because muscular atrophy is the major cause of injury in those of retirement age. Bones lose density and the frame has no elasticity or shock absorption. The longer you can hold that at bay the better the quality of life.

my Dad is 76 a former Olympic coach. Never stopped lifting. He swims, jogs, climbs mountains. Plays ice curling.We did a 21 mile hike in February in the snow.

make adjustments to your training protocol. Hell just switch to calesthenics.. but don’t stop.

that’s my advice anyway. Also they say that as a man’s testosterone drops the balls he plays with get smaller. You will be flicking marbles next.:p
 

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I would live in a beach town in Thailand or maybe Florida.

Focus more on my Christian faith, volunteer and help people on my spare time.

I would make a ton of of platonic friends to hang out with.

Work more on my hobbies, hone my guitar skills and maybe play a couple of gigs.

Career wise, finally finish my bachelors degree and maybe get a part time job I enjoy while at it.

Oh yeah, continue working out, lifting weights, calisthenics etc.
 

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Hi Rocky2,
"Become a hermit in the mountains. Dogs, horses and mules for company. Build a cabin with hand tools, and explore."....Been there done that at 35 years old,a little cabin 7 miles from nearest neighbour....Kerosene fridge,postie dropped off bread and any light groceries at post box 2 miles away mostly lived on Rabbits...It soon palls,after a fortnight you are glad to get back to Babylon.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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