Never stop
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Never another woman for you
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Travel memoir21
Master Don Juan
If you want to play pick up...just lift light and cut, do more sprints and cardio.
The reason I say never stop is because muscular atrophy is the major cause of injury in those of retirement age. Bones lose density and the frame has no elasticity or shock absorption. The longer you can hold that at bay the better the quality of life.
my Dad is 76 a former Olympic coach. Never stopped lifting. He swims, jogs, climbs mountains. Plays ice curling.We did a 21 mile hike in February in the snow.
make adjustments to your training protocol. Hell just switch to calesthenics.. but don’t stop.
that’s my advice anyway. Also they say that as a man’s testosterone drops the balls he plays with get smaller. You will be flicking marbles next.
Travel memoir21
Master Don Juan
I would live in a beach town in Thailand or maybe Florida.
Focus more on my Christian faith, volunteer and help people on my spare time.
I would make a ton of of platonic friends to hang out with.
Work more on my hobbies, hone my guitar skills and maybe play a couple of gigs.
Career wise, finally finish my bachelors degree and maybe get a part time job I enjoy while at it.
Oh yeah, continue working out, lifting weights, calisthenics etc.
Focus more on my Christian faith, volunteer and help people on my spare time.
I would make a ton of of platonic friends to hang out with.
Work more on my hobbies, hone my guitar skills and maybe play a couple of gigs.
Career wise, finally finish my bachelors degree and maybe get a part time job I enjoy while at it.
Oh yeah, continue working out, lifting weights, calisthenics etc.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Hi Rocky2,
"Become a hermit in the mountains. Dogs, horses and mules for company. Build a cabin with hand tools, and explore."....Been there done that at 35 years old,a little cabin 7 miles from nearest neighbour....Kerosene fridge,postie dropped off bread and any light groceries at post box 2 miles away mostly lived on Rabbits...It soon palls,after a fortnight you are glad to get back to Babylon.
"Become a hermit in the mountains. Dogs, horses and mules for company. Build a cabin with hand tools, and explore."....Been there done that at 35 years old,a little cabin 7 miles from nearest neighbour....Kerosene fridge,postie dropped off bread and any light groceries at post box 2 miles away mostly lived on Rabbits...It soon palls,after a fortnight you are glad to get back to Babylon.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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