"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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give me some good ones..

your such a blond (when she is not)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"youre such a blond" even when shes not? hmm wouldnt that make YOU look stupid:confused:
 

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I'm with undesputable on that one. It'd make you seem like an ignorant fool who can't think of anything better to say and has to use cliches.
 

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Oh, and it should be indsiputable.:D
 

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Originally posted by Ace of Spades
Oh, and it should be indsiputable.:D
lol, still wrong but anyways, I call girls blondes all the time, even when they're not.

If they say something "blonde", I'll tell her "You're such a blonde". :)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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There are articles and threads about this. Use the search function.
 

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Originally posted by Ace of Spades
Oh, and it should be indsiputable.:D
Maybe if you read his signature....
 

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Neg hit's are only really for superhot chicks when they step outta line, or any chick that thinks she's better than you (overall) and has a higher self esteem so that they can brush it off, but come down a notch on her bytchness-meter.

It is mostly those kinda things that people say and it doesn't have a malicious intent behind it, but they do offend you a lil...

Some popular ones are:
Nice nails, are they fake?
Wow you look like a model... hand model right?
Hi... I wanted to talk to the prettiest girl in the room.... she's right over there, I'm practicing on you
Aww I like how your nose wriggles when you speak
My little sister has a jacket just like that
Didn't I see you with the jacket on before
 

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thank you

atlest some one pays attention to the questions.. they helped. thanks alot.
 

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fvcvking search function. don't be so lazy
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Being too sexy is a sin.

Hows that?
 

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Originally posted by Zendryn
Being too sexy is a sin.

Hows that?
That's more of a subtle compliment I would say.

More like:
Umm excuse me, your tag is showing

Something that makes them a lil sub concious ;)
 
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