"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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All this do this that stuff aside. Find out what kind of woman your looking to bring into your life. Job lifestyle social class and then get yourself looking like something a woman of that stature would date. This enough info to know where these women frequent and who these women date so your able to tailor your look to their desires.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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SeymourCake said:
You're Indian which is pretty much close to black. I would always had my head shaved with a nice fade. Wear clothes that compliment your skin tone. You are not bad looking (no homo) keep in shape and you can get any chick you want

P.S don't wear suits unless you need to be formal they look nice sometimes but you'll look like a **** if you wear them all the time
 

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Really? I've read somewhere that Indians are Caucasoids.
 

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I say keep buzz cut, a bit of a groomed facial hair and get your eyebrows shaped.

As for clothing, as mentioned above stick to your style but make it interesting. Clothes need to properly fit your body; join styleforum.net, its a great place where you can learn about style, clothing, fits, etc.

Otherwise keep working on your inner game and inner person, develope your social life and hobbies; do what makes you happy and everything else will fall into place.

Learn to love yourlsef for who you are, and other will love you as well!
 

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You should go to this youtube channel: youtube.com/alphamconsulting
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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the first bunch of pictures is were you looked best. I dont see anything wrong with them. its just goes to prove how messed up women are. stay with the buzz cut or fade. you seem like your dressing matches your looks.

DO NOT start listening to some of these men and start wearing long sleeve dress shirts or blazers with jeans and casual shoes (like the kind you wear with dress clothes)

I could get you about 10-15 women right now in a week just by the way you look now.
 

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Dang homie you looked straight black I thought we were brothers at first hahah. Tip normal looking guys with muscles blow up in the game
 

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Chosen1 said:
You're Indian which is pretty much close to black. I would always had my head shaved with a nice fade. Wear clothes that compliment your skin tone. You are not bad looking (no homo) keep in shape and you can get any chick you want

P.S don't wear suits unless you need to be formal they look nice sometimes but you'll look like a **** if you wear them all the time
Indians close to black??? This forum is the funniest bit of reading one can do. Give a 13 year old boy a computer and you never know what you will get.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TtJRNyPK-lc
Yep, I see the similarities with them black folk.

For your information. India is not close to Black Africa. It is by Pakistan in Central Asia. Indians are a diverse group of many ethnic groups and languages. Much too complicated for simple Americans to understand. Hell, Americans think that "Hispanic" and "Latin" is a look. God help them when it comes to a part of the world they can't even find on a map.
 

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Indians close to black??? This forum is the funniest bit of reading one can do. Give a 13 year old boy a computer and you never know what you will get.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TtJRNyPK-lc
Yep, I see the similarities with them black folk.

For your information. India is not close to Black Africa. It is by Pakistan in Central Asia. Indians are a diverse group of many ethnic groups and languages. Much too complicated for simple Americans to understand. Hell, Americans think that "Hispanic" and "Latin" is a look. God help them when it comes to a part of the world they can't even find on a map.

Big Jimbo. I swear you crack me the hell up! Keep posting! Make threads! BJ is a legend! lmao.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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joe henny

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thedude4242 said:
so your saying a normal looking guy with muscle really do good.
of course
 

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BigJimbo said:
Indians close to black??? This forum is the funniest bit of reading one can do. Give a 13 year old boy a computer and you never know what you will get.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TtJRNyPK-lc
Yep, I see the similarities with them black folk.

For your information. India is not close to Black Africa. It is by Pakistan in Central Asia. Indians are a diverse group of many ethnic groups and languages. Much too complicated for simple Americans to understand. Hell, Americans think that "Hispanic" and "Latin" is a look. God help them when it comes to a part of the world they can't even find on a map.
Hey that dude looked more gangsta then I do. He's an alright looking guy Indians are black at least in my book.
 

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The first thing you need to decide is what kind of look are you going for?

If you're looking for a hip hop look, lose the baggy clothes and go for the look Pharell, Kanye and others are wearing. Fitted, kind of dressy with an edge.

And get your suit tailored. Nothing looks more comical than an oversized suit. Its kind of like seeing a kid wearing his dad's suit jacket.

GQ has a special publication out right now about how to dress. It runs about 11 dollars but well worth buying if you find it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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