"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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All this do this that stuff aside. Find out what kind of woman your looking to bring into your life. Job lifestyle social class and then get yourself looking like something a woman of that stature would date. This enough info to know where these women frequent and who these women date so your able to tailor your look to their desires.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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SeymourCake said:
You're Indian which is pretty much close to black. I would always had my head shaved with a nice fade. Wear clothes that compliment your skin tone. You are not bad looking (no homo) keep in shape and you can get any chick you want

P.S don't wear suits unless you need to be formal they look nice sometimes but you'll look like a **** if you wear them all the time
 

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Really? I've read somewhere that Indians are Caucasoids.
 

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I say keep buzz cut, a bit of a groomed facial hair and get your eyebrows shaped.

As for clothing, as mentioned above stick to your style but make it interesting. Clothes need to properly fit your body; join styleforum.net, its a great place where you can learn about style, clothing, fits, etc.

Otherwise keep working on your inner game and inner person, develope your social life and hobbies; do what makes you happy and everything else will fall into place.

Learn to love yourlsef for who you are, and other will love you as well!
 

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You should go to this youtube channel: youtube.com/alphamconsulting
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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the first bunch of pictures is were you looked best. I dont see anything wrong with them. its just goes to prove how messed up women are. stay with the buzz cut or fade. you seem like your dressing matches your looks.

DO NOT start listening to some of these men and start wearing long sleeve dress shirts or blazers with jeans and casual shoes (like the kind you wear with dress clothes)

I could get you about 10-15 women right now in a week just by the way you look now.
 

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Dang homie you looked straight black I thought we were brothers at first hahah. Tip normal looking guys with muscles blow up in the game
 

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Chosen1 said:
You're Indian which is pretty much close to black. I would always had my head shaved with a nice fade. Wear clothes that compliment your skin tone. You are not bad looking (no homo) keep in shape and you can get any chick you want

P.S don't wear suits unless you need to be formal they look nice sometimes but you'll look like a **** if you wear them all the time
Indians close to black??? This forum is the funniest bit of reading one can do. Give a 13 year old boy a computer and you never know what you will get.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TtJRNyPK-lc
Yep, I see the similarities with them black folk.

For your information. India is not close to Black Africa. It is by Pakistan in Central Asia. Indians are a diverse group of many ethnic groups and languages. Much too complicated for simple Americans to understand. Hell, Americans think that "Hispanic" and "Latin" is a look. God help them when it comes to a part of the world they can't even find on a map.
 

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Indians close to black??? This forum is the funniest bit of reading one can do. Give a 13 year old boy a computer and you never know what you will get.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TtJRNyPK-lc
Yep, I see the similarities with them black folk.

For your information. India is not close to Black Africa. It is by Pakistan in Central Asia. Indians are a diverse group of many ethnic groups and languages. Much too complicated for simple Americans to understand. Hell, Americans think that "Hispanic" and "Latin" is a look. God help them when it comes to a part of the world they can't even find on a map.

Big Jimbo. I swear you crack me the hell up! Keep posting! Make threads! BJ is a legend! lmao.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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thedude4242 said:
so your saying a normal looking guy with muscle really do good.
of course
 

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BigJimbo said:
Indians close to black??? This forum is the funniest bit of reading one can do. Give a 13 year old boy a computer and you never know what you will get.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TtJRNyPK-lc
Yep, I see the similarities with them black folk.

For your information. India is not close to Black Africa. It is by Pakistan in Central Asia. Indians are a diverse group of many ethnic groups and languages. Much too complicated for simple Americans to understand. Hell, Americans think that "Hispanic" and "Latin" is a look. God help them when it comes to a part of the world they can't even find on a map.
Hey that dude looked more gangsta then I do. He's an alright looking guy Indians are black at least in my book.
 

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The first thing you need to decide is what kind of look are you going for?

If you're looking for a hip hop look, lose the baggy clothes and go for the look Pharell, Kanye and others are wearing. Fitted, kind of dressy with an edge.

And get your suit tailored. Nothing looks more comical than an oversized suit. Its kind of like seeing a kid wearing his dad's suit jacket.

GQ has a special publication out right now about how to dress. It runs about 11 dollars but well worth buying if you find it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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