"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Honestly, I'd go back to the look you had a year ago. The suit was smooth. Pretty GQ. You look like kind of a douchebag in your pic from April. No offense.

What's most important, though, is to make sure your look matches your personality. Make sure it reflects who you really are as a person. Anything that isn't genuine, no matter how good it might look, will hinder your game because it will come across as incongruent.
 
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snowdog said:
I'm sure everyone will agree that a (good) suit looks good on any guy.
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I'm talkin' about face wise. That suit thing was a one time thing for a school award ceremony.


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what shades are those
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Versace.

Nexus Polaris said:
Honestly, I'd go back to the look you had a year ago. The suit was smooth. Pretty GQ. You look like kind of a douchebag in your pic from April. No offense.

What's most important, though, is to make sure your look matches your personality. Make sure it reflects who you really are as a person. Anything that isn't genuine, no matter how good it might look, will hinder your game because it will come across as incongruent.
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I thought girls are attracted to douchebags. :crackup:

But I agree with your second part. Definitely.
 
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How's that novel you've been working on, snowdog?
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How did you knew I was writing a novel?

The novel I'm working on is a little over 30.000 words right now. I'm quite happy with what I wrote so far, but I need to develop a decent story line. Writing a novel is a hard thing to do.

If you're talking about the e-book I'm also working on (I think the subtlety in your sarcasm is cute if you meant that. It probably makes you think you look smart), that's currently in the cooler. I'll work further on that once I learn more about dealing with girls. I wrote everything down that has helped me so far, and I'm not where I wanna be yet, so the book's not done yet. Simple as that. Once it's done, I'll post it on here, don't worry.

I'm talkin' about face wise. That suit thing was a one time thing for a school award ceremony.
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You ever tried growing a fro? I always thought that's f*cking cool. A friend of mine has a HUGE one and girls love it. He gets automatic attention and they all wanna touch it and stuff. If you have an extreme hair style like that, it shows that you're confident enough to not give a sh*t. You got the right hair and you're black, so you can pull it off. Afro's will never look as cool on a white guy as on a black guy. Same goes for bald heads.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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yea man you really need to go back to your old style. you looked good but the new style makes you look like a fob.
 
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Damn
 
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Nice fresh lined up hair, definitely ghetto!! Idk like people have said different style attract different pu55y. You look like you'd shop at Champs or Footlocker or somethin like that, I used to get clothes there. You also seem like you'd rock Nikes or Jordans a lot.

No offense but in your pic where your hair is kinda long, well thats an ass ugly picture. I think your hairs pretty cool faded/buzz cut, but if you grow it out do skater style. I have a friend Haji, who looked Black/Indian and he always wore LRG, caps, Vans, Nikes...he graduated last year but he looked pretty good with stubble
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I can't get a fro with my kind of hair. It's too heavy and thick.
 
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i like the 1st 3 pics that style suits

you look cooley (half black half indian) the chicks love that keep your hair
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a bit of stubble

whos the chick?
 
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some phillipino chick that went to school with me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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