"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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All this do this that stuff aside. Find out what kind of woman your looking to bring into your life. Job lifestyle social class and then get yourself looking like something a woman of that stature would date. This enough info to know where these women frequent and who these women date so your able to tailor your look to their desires.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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SeymourCake said:
You're Indian which is pretty much close to black. I would always had my head shaved with a nice fade. Wear clothes that compliment your skin tone. You are not bad looking (no homo) keep in shape and you can get any chick you want

P.S don't wear suits unless you need to be formal they look nice sometimes but you'll look like a **** if you wear them all the time
 

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Really? I've read somewhere that Indians are Caucasoids.
 

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I say keep buzz cut, a bit of a groomed facial hair and get your eyebrows shaped.

As for clothing, as mentioned above stick to your style but make it interesting. Clothes need to properly fit your body; join styleforum.net, its a great place where you can learn about style, clothing, fits, etc.

Otherwise keep working on your inner game and inner person, develope your social life and hobbies; do what makes you happy and everything else will fall into place.

Learn to love yourlsef for who you are, and other will love you as well!
 

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You should go to this youtube channel: youtube.com/alphamconsulting
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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the first bunch of pictures is were you looked best. I dont see anything wrong with them. its just goes to prove how messed up women are. stay with the buzz cut or fade. you seem like your dressing matches your looks.

DO NOT start listening to some of these men and start wearing long sleeve dress shirts or blazers with jeans and casual shoes (like the kind you wear with dress clothes)

I could get you about 10-15 women right now in a week just by the way you look now.
 

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Dang homie you looked straight black I thought we were brothers at first hahah. Tip normal looking guys with muscles blow up in the game
 

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Chosen1 said:
You're Indian which is pretty much close to black. I would always had my head shaved with a nice fade. Wear clothes that compliment your skin tone. You are not bad looking (no homo) keep in shape and you can get any chick you want

P.S don't wear suits unless you need to be formal they look nice sometimes but you'll look like a **** if you wear them all the time
Indians close to black??? This forum is the funniest bit of reading one can do. Give a 13 year old boy a computer and you never know what you will get.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TtJRNyPK-lc
Yep, I see the similarities with them black folk.

For your information. India is not close to Black Africa. It is by Pakistan in Central Asia. Indians are a diverse group of many ethnic groups and languages. Much too complicated for simple Americans to understand. Hell, Americans think that "Hispanic" and "Latin" is a look. God help them when it comes to a part of the world they can't even find on a map.
 

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Indians close to black??? This forum is the funniest bit of reading one can do. Give a 13 year old boy a computer and you never know what you will get.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TtJRNyPK-lc
Yep, I see the similarities with them black folk.

For your information. India is not close to Black Africa. It is by Pakistan in Central Asia. Indians are a diverse group of many ethnic groups and languages. Much too complicated for simple Americans to understand. Hell, Americans think that "Hispanic" and "Latin" is a look. God help them when it comes to a part of the world they can't even find on a map.

Big Jimbo. I swear you crack me the hell up! Keep posting! Make threads! BJ is a legend! lmao.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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thedude4242 said:
so your saying a normal looking guy with muscle really do good.
of course
 

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BigJimbo said:
Indians close to black??? This forum is the funniest bit of reading one can do. Give a 13 year old boy a computer and you never know what you will get.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TtJRNyPK-lc
Yep, I see the similarities with them black folk.

For your information. India is not close to Black Africa. It is by Pakistan in Central Asia. Indians are a diverse group of many ethnic groups and languages. Much too complicated for simple Americans to understand. Hell, Americans think that "Hispanic" and "Latin" is a look. God help them when it comes to a part of the world they can't even find on a map.
Hey that dude looked more gangsta then I do. He's an alright looking guy Indians are black at least in my book.
 

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The first thing you need to decide is what kind of look are you going for?

If you're looking for a hip hop look, lose the baggy clothes and go for the look Pharell, Kanye and others are wearing. Fitted, kind of dressy with an edge.

And get your suit tailored. Nothing looks more comical than an oversized suit. Its kind of like seeing a kid wearing his dad's suit jacket.

GQ has a special publication out right now about how to dress. It runs about 11 dollars but well worth buying if you find it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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