All this do this that stuff aside. Find out what kind of woman your looking to bring into your life. Job lifestyle social class and then get yourself looking like something a woman of that stature would date. This enough info to know where these women frequent and who these women date so your able to tailor your look to their desires.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Chosen1
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You're Indian which is pretty much close to black. I would always had my head shaved with a nice fade. Wear clothes that compliment your skin tone. You are not bad looking (no homo) keep in shape and you can get any chick you wantSeymourCake said:
P.S don't wear suits unless you need to be formal they look nice sometimes but you'll look like a **** if you wear them all the time
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Really? I've read somewhere that Indians are Caucasoids.
I say keep buzz cut, a bit of a groomed facial hair and get your eyebrows shaped.
As for clothing, as mentioned above stick to your style but make it interesting. Clothes need to properly fit your body; join styleforum.net, its a great place where you can learn about style, clothing, fits, etc.
Otherwise keep working on your inner game and inner person, develope your social life and hobbies; do what makes you happy and everything else will fall into place.
Learn to love yourlsef for who you are, and other will love you as well!
As for clothing, as mentioned above stick to your style but make it interesting. Clothes need to properly fit your body; join styleforum.net, its a great place where you can learn about style, clothing, fits, etc.
Otherwise keep working on your inner game and inner person, develope your social life and hobbies; do what makes you happy and everything else will fall into place.
Learn to love yourlsef for who you are, and other will love you as well!
Hidden-Hand
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You should go to this youtube channel: youtube.com/alphamconsulting
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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the first bunch of pictures is were you looked best. I dont see anything wrong with them. its just goes to prove how messed up women are. stay with the buzz cut or fade. you seem like your dressing matches your looks.
DO NOT start listening to some of these men and start wearing long sleeve dress shirts or blazers with jeans and casual shoes (like the kind you wear with dress clothes)
I could get you about 10-15 women right now in a week just by the way you look now.
DO NOT start listening to some of these men and start wearing long sleeve dress shirts or blazers with jeans and casual shoes (like the kind you wear with dress clothes)
I could get you about 10-15 women right now in a week just by the way you look now.
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so your saying a normal looking guy with muscle really do good.
Indians close to black??? This forum is the funniest bit of reading one can do. Give a 13 year old boy a computer and you never know what you will get.Chosen1 said:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TtJRNyPK-lc
Yep, I see the similarities with them black folk.
For your information. India is not close to Black Africa. It is by Pakistan in Central Asia. Indians are a diverse group of many ethnic groups and languages. Much too complicated for simple Americans to understand. Hell, Americans think that "Hispanic" and "Latin" is a look. God help them when it comes to a part of the world they can't even find on a map.
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Big Jimbo. I swear you crack me the hell up! Keep posting! Make threads! BJ is a legend! lmao.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Hey that dude looked more gangsta then I do. He's an alright looking guy Indians are black at least in my book.BigJimbo said:
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The first thing you need to decide is what kind of look are you going for?
If you're looking for a hip hop look, lose the baggy clothes and go for the look Pharell, Kanye and others are wearing. Fitted, kind of dressy with an edge.
And get your suit tailored. Nothing looks more comical than an oversized suit. Its kind of like seeing a kid wearing his dad's suit jacket.
GQ has a special publication out right now about how to dress. It runs about 11 dollars but well worth buying if you find it.
If you're looking for a hip hop look, lose the baggy clothes and go for the look Pharell, Kanye and others are wearing. Fitted, kind of dressy with an edge.
And get your suit tailored. Nothing looks more comical than an oversized suit. Its kind of like seeing a kid wearing his dad's suit jacket.
GQ has a special publication out right now about how to dress. It runs about 11 dollars but well worth buying if you find it.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.