"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Last nite i had a house party. Got drunk and fooled ( we didnt have sex) around with a girl that i kinda know.

I'm just wondering what should I do next. Should i txt her at all, not talk to her, or what.

She's pretty nice and i'm not really the kind of person to just use a person.

Just wanted some input.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This girl's a ho. You should of banged her when you had the chance, because chances are you won't get another one.

Do you really want to get involved with a girl who damn near has sex with random guys anyway?

I'd ignore her, or she's going to think you're a tool. Maybe you'll get lucky and see her at another party and you guys can fool around again, but I wouldn't go out of my way to contact her. If she really likes you she'll try and get ahold of you herself.
 
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Scars said:
This girl's a ho. You should of banged her when you had the chance, because chances are you won't get another one.

Do you really want to get involved with a girl who damn near has sex with random guys anyway?

I'd ignore her, or she's going to think you're a tool. Maybe you'll get lucky and see her at another party and you guys can fool around again, but I wouldn't go out of my way to contact her. If she really likes you she'll try and get ahold of you herself.
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I really hope that is a joke, but you never know anymore.
 
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Thanks, good advice
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No, bad advice. Don't listen to Scars that was ridiculous. Like the poster above said, I hope that was a joke but you never know.

Call her whenever you want to make plans. There is no special rule on this. She is either interested or she isn't.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Everything in moderation.

Too much of any of those will drive her away faster than an AFC in a lamborghini.

Especially the negs.
 
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How is my advice bad?

Then again, I'm more of a ****-em and leave-em kind of guy.
I hate the next morning akwardness. That's why I always try and split before then. From seriously, from my experience don't get involved with flings you met at a party. They usually don't work out too well if you're looking for a LTR type thing. Which seems to be the case.
 
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I'm just going to talk to her a little, doesn't mean anything will happen.
 
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