"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Last nite i had a house party. Got drunk and fooled ( we didnt have sex) around with a girl that i kinda know.

I'm just wondering what should I do next. Should i txt her at all, not talk to her, or what.

She's pretty nice and i'm not really the kind of person to just use a person.

Just wanted some input.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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This girl's a ho. You should of banged her when you had the chance, because chances are you won't get another one.

Do you really want to get involved with a girl who damn near has sex with random guys anyway?

I'd ignore her, or she's going to think you're a tool. Maybe you'll get lucky and see her at another party and you guys can fool around again, but I wouldn't go out of my way to contact her. If she really likes you she'll try and get ahold of you herself.
 

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Scars said:
This girl's a ho. You should of banged her when you had the chance, because chances are you won't get another one.

Do you really want to get involved with a girl who damn near has sex with random guys anyway?

I'd ignore her, or she's going to think you're a tool. Maybe you'll get lucky and see her at another party and you guys can fool around again, but I wouldn't go out of my way to contact her. If she really likes you she'll try and get ahold of you herself.
I really hope that is a joke, but you never know anymore.
 

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weepingrose said:
Thanks, good advice
No, bad advice. Don't listen to Scars that was ridiculous. Like the poster above said, I hope that was a joke but you never know.

Call her whenever you want to make plans. There is no special rule on this. She is either interested or she isn't.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Everything in moderation.

Too much of any of those will drive her away faster than an AFC in a lamborghini.

Especially the negs.
 

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How is my advice bad?

Then again, I'm more of a ****-em and leave-em kind of guy.
I hate the next morning akwardness. That's why I always try and split before then. From seriously, from my experience don't get involved with flings you met at a party. They usually don't work out too well if you're looking for a LTR type thing. Which seems to be the case.
 

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I'm just going to talk to her a little, doesn't mean anything will happen.
 
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