"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Last nite i had a house party. Got drunk and fooled ( we didnt have sex) around with a girl that i kinda know.

I'm just wondering what should I do next. Should i txt her at all, not talk to her, or what.

She's pretty nice and i'm not really the kind of person to just use a person.

Just wanted some input.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This girl's a ho. You should of banged her when you had the chance, because chances are you won't get another one.

Do you really want to get involved with a girl who damn near has sex with random guys anyway?

I'd ignore her, or she's going to think you're a tool. Maybe you'll get lucky and see her at another party and you guys can fool around again, but I wouldn't go out of my way to contact her. If she really likes you she'll try and get ahold of you herself.
 
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Scars said:
This girl's a ho. You should of banged her when you had the chance, because chances are you won't get another one.

Do you really want to get involved with a girl who damn near has sex with random guys anyway?

I'd ignore her, or she's going to think you're a tool. Maybe you'll get lucky and see her at another party and you guys can fool around again, but I wouldn't go out of my way to contact her. If she really likes you she'll try and get ahold of you herself.
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I really hope that is a joke, but you never know anymore.
 
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Thanks, good advice
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No, bad advice. Don't listen to Scars that was ridiculous. Like the poster above said, I hope that was a joke but you never know.

Call her whenever you want to make plans. There is no special rule on this. She is either interested or she isn't.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Everything in moderation.

Too much of any of those will drive her away faster than an AFC in a lamborghini.

Especially the negs.
 
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How is my advice bad?

Then again, I'm more of a ****-em and leave-em kind of guy.
I hate the next morning akwardness. That's why I always try and split before then. From seriously, from my experience don't get involved with flings you met at a party. They usually don't work out too well if you're looking for a LTR type thing. Which seems to be the case.
 
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I'm just going to talk to her a little, doesn't mean anything will happen.
 
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