"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Last nite i had a house party. Got drunk and fooled ( we didnt have sex) around with a girl that i kinda know.

I'm just wondering what should I do next. Should i txt her at all, not talk to her, or what.

She's pretty nice and i'm not really the kind of person to just use a person.

Just wanted some input.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This girl's a ho. You should of banged her when you had the chance, because chances are you won't get another one.

Do you really want to get involved with a girl who damn near has sex with random guys anyway?

I'd ignore her, or she's going to think you're a tool. Maybe you'll get lucky and see her at another party and you guys can fool around again, but I wouldn't go out of my way to contact her. If she really likes you she'll try and get ahold of you herself.
 
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Scars said:
This girl's a ho. You should of banged her when you had the chance, because chances are you won't get another one.

Do you really want to get involved with a girl who damn near has sex with random guys anyway?

I'd ignore her, or she's going to think you're a tool. Maybe you'll get lucky and see her at another party and you guys can fool around again, but I wouldn't go out of my way to contact her. If she really likes you she'll try and get ahold of you herself.
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I really hope that is a joke, but you never know anymore.
 
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Thanks, good advice
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No, bad advice. Don't listen to Scars that was ridiculous. Like the poster above said, I hope that was a joke but you never know.

Call her whenever you want to make plans. There is no special rule on this. She is either interested or she isn't.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Everything in moderation.

Too much of any of those will drive her away faster than an AFC in a lamborghini.

Especially the negs.
 
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How is my advice bad?

Then again, I'm more of a ****-em and leave-em kind of guy.
I hate the next morning akwardness. That's why I always try and split before then. From seriously, from my experience don't get involved with flings you met at a party. They usually don't work out too well if you're looking for a LTR type thing. Which seems to be the case.
 
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I'm just going to talk to her a little, doesn't mean anything will happen.
 
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