There is this girl that I haven't seen for about yrs and I recently ran into her again. It was a quick Hi how are and thats it. The thing is that yrs ago I had asked her out she said yes but if few days she said something had come up and she had to reschedule I was fine with that. Now my question is now that ran into her again I want to ask her out again but I don't know what to say. Can you give me you honest opinion on what I should say.
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
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Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
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Years passed by??????????????????? This delay is a little scary - why didn't you folow up years ago???
Maybe she is married now or has a man - do you have a phone number??? Explain!!!
Maybe she is married now or has a man - do you have a phone number??? Explain!!!
Well I left the company that we worked for 2 weeks prior to her leaving. The reason for not following up was I didn't know if she was seeing any one at the time and I figured that she need some space and didn't what her to fell pressured. From what I have been told she not married or seeing any one. I don't have her phone number but I do have her e-mail address.
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If she VOLUNTARILY gave you the e-mail address then say a polite "Hello"!!! And measure her response in return and gauge for interest!!
I'll try that. The only problem that I have is know what to say I'll start to type and stop and read what I have so far and it make no sense to me so I start all over by the time I get ready to send it makes no sense what so ever. I get the felling that I just put my foot in my mouth. I know its an easy thing to do but I get nervous and mess up.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I'll try that. The only problem that I have is know what to say I'll start to type and stop and read what I have so far and it make no sense to me so I start all over by the time I get ready to send it makes no sense what so ever. I get the felling that I just put my foot in my mouth. I know its an easy thing to do but I get nervous and mess up.
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Ok kid, what do you have so far?? I'll help you with the letter!
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I agree about the c&f email.
All that matters is how she feels about you now; forget the past.
All that matters is how she feels about you now; forget the past.