There is this girl that I haven't seen for about yrs and I recently ran into her again. It was a quick Hi how are and thats it. The thing is that yrs ago I had asked her out she said yes but if few days she said something had come up and she had to reschedule I was fine with that. Now my question is now that ran into her again I want to ask her out again but I don't know what to say. Can you give me you honest opinion on what I should say.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Years passed by??????????????????? This delay is a little scary - why didn't you folow up years ago???
Maybe she is married now or has a man - do you have a phone number??? Explain!!!
Maybe she is married now or has a man - do you have a phone number??? Explain!!!
Well I left the company that we worked for 2 weeks prior to her leaving. The reason for not following up was I didn't know if she was seeing any one at the time and I figured that she need some space and didn't what her to fell pressured. From what I have been told she not married or seeing any one. I don't have her phone number but I do have her e-mail address.
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If she VOLUNTARILY gave you the e-mail address then say a polite "Hello"!!! And measure her response in return and gauge for interest!!
I'll try that. The only problem that I have is know what to say I'll start to type and stop and read what I have so far and it make no sense to me so I start all over by the time I get ready to send it makes no sense what so ever. I get the felling that I just put my foot in my mouth. I know its an easy thing to do but I get nervous and mess up.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I'll try that. The only problem that I have is know what to say I'll start to type and stop and read what I have so far and it make no sense to me so I start all over by the time I get ready to send it makes no sense what so ever. I get the felling that I just put my foot in my mouth. I know its an easy thing to do but I get nervous and mess up.
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Ok kid, what do you have so far?? I'll help you with the letter!
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I agree about the c&f email.
All that matters is how she feels about you now; forget the past.
All that matters is how she feels about you now; forget the past.