There is this girl that I haven't seen for about yrs and I recently ran into her again. It was a quick Hi how are and thats it. The thing is that yrs ago I had asked her out she said yes but if few days she said something had come up and she had to reschedule I was fine with that. Now my question is now that ran into her again I want to ask her out again but I don't know what to say. Can you give me you honest opinion on what I should say.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Years passed by??????????????????? This delay is a little scary - why didn't you folow up years ago???
Maybe she is married now or has a man - do you have a phone number??? Explain!!!
Maybe she is married now or has a man - do you have a phone number??? Explain!!!
Well I left the company that we worked for 2 weeks prior to her leaving. The reason for not following up was I didn't know if she was seeing any one at the time and I figured that she need some space and didn't what her to fell pressured. From what I have been told she not married or seeing any one. I don't have her phone number but I do have her e-mail address.
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If she VOLUNTARILY gave you the e-mail address then say a polite "Hello"!!! And measure her response in return and gauge for interest!!
I'll try that. The only problem that I have is know what to say I'll start to type and stop and read what I have so far and it make no sense to me so I start all over by the time I get ready to send it makes no sense what so ever. I get the felling that I just put my foot in my mouth. I know its an easy thing to do but I get nervous and mess up.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I'll try that. The only problem that I have is know what to say I'll start to type and stop and read what I have so far and it make no sense to me so I start all over by the time I get ready to send it makes no sense what so ever. I get the felling that I just put my foot in my mouth. I know its an easy thing to do but I get nervous and mess up.
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Ok kid, what do you have so far?? I'll help you with the letter!
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I agree about the c&f email.
All that matters is how she feels about you now; forget the past.
All that matters is how she feels about you now; forget the past.