"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Need Ideas for date with single mom

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Ok so this girl I been hanging with has kids and we work together so we have lunch and sh!t and talk on the phone. I been to her house a few times but to this point we have never been alone without kids or anybody around. She does the typical girl stuff grabs my arm kisses on the cheek when we leave eachother. So today she tells me guess what? She says the baby father is comin for the kids this weekend so she will be free all weekend. I told her she cant have both days so she said fine friday. My ? is what should I do just take her to the crib and savage her or get some food a movie then savage her lol lol
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MarkHammond said:
Ok so this girl I been hanging with has kids and we work together so we have lunch and sh!t and talk on the phone. I been to her house a few times but to this point we have never been alone without kids or anybody around. She does the typical girl stuff grabs my arm kisses on the cheek when we leave eachother. So today she tells me guess what? She says the baby father is comin for the kids this weekend so she will be free all weekend. I told her she cant have both days so she said fine friday. My ? is what should I do just take her to the crib and savage her or get some food a movie then savage her lol lol

So, she is already taking you to her house and presented you to her kids? Certainly LOW quality material of a woman.
 

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Desdinova said:
Not much more to add there.

Two things SMs don't get to do often:

1) Go out and get drunk
2) Fvck
VERY GOOD POINT!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I agree 100% with Drink and Fvck!! Then run. Single moms are gods proof that he has a sense of humor. For what you ask? For the poor b@st@rds that fall into the trap, thats what. Believe me I know, I was one of those poor b@st@rds!
 

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I wouldn't count on it. Single Mothers always end up cancelling or changing plans...this SM i used to talk to would tell me the same thing "Oh his father is coming and we can be alone" I would always get that voicemail that he isn't coming and didn't call or what a jerk he was for not answering the phone. Then like a dummy I would go over and sit there with her while she yells at her kid to calm down. We try to go in her room and chill but he keeps coming back and forth to interrupt us.... Save yourself the trouble...DO NOT DATE SINGLE MOTHERS ...matter of fact do not even SLEEP with them...it's far too much trouble than it is worth. Just tell her this isn't for you and you want to be friends....
 

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Dude,

I've banged plenty of single mums.

The trick is to go around when the kids are asleep! or out with their "weekend dad"

Once you have banged her, make sure she is clear that it is just a sex thing. You really dont wanna be bringing up some other guy's brats.
 

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blowme said:
bang her then run far far away
This is fvcking awesome :flowers:

As far as a date goes with this b!tch, bring some Pampers and Candyland then do what brother BLOWME suggests.
 

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Avoid moms.
They're trouble.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ask where she wants to go, shes the one stuck in the house all the time:)
 
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