"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Need Ideas for date with single mom

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Ok so this girl I been hanging with has kids and we work together so we have lunch and sh!t and talk on the phone. I been to her house a few times but to this point we have never been alone without kids or anybody around. She does the typical girl stuff grabs my arm kisses on the cheek when we leave eachother. So today she tells me guess what? She says the baby father is comin for the kids this weekend so she will be free all weekend. I told her she cant have both days so she said fine friday. My ? is what should I do just take her to the crib and savage her or get some food a movie then savage her lol lol
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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MarkHammond said:
Ok so this girl I been hanging with has kids and we work together so we have lunch and sh!t and talk on the phone. I been to her house a few times but to this point we have never been alone without kids or anybody around. She does the typical girl stuff grabs my arm kisses on the cheek when we leave eachother. So today she tells me guess what? She says the baby father is comin for the kids this weekend so she will be free all weekend. I told her she cant have both days so she said fine friday. My ? is what should I do just take her to the crib and savage her or get some food a movie then savage her lol lol

So, she is already taking you to her house and presented you to her kids? Certainly LOW quality material of a woman.
 

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Desdinova said:
Not much more to add there.

Two things SMs don't get to do often:

1) Go out and get drunk
2) Fvck
VERY GOOD POINT!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I agree 100% with Drink and Fvck!! Then run. Single moms are gods proof that he has a sense of humor. For what you ask? For the poor b@st@rds that fall into the trap, thats what. Believe me I know, I was one of those poor b@st@rds!
 

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I wouldn't count on it. Single Mothers always end up cancelling or changing plans...this SM i used to talk to would tell me the same thing "Oh his father is coming and we can be alone" I would always get that voicemail that he isn't coming and didn't call or what a jerk he was for not answering the phone. Then like a dummy I would go over and sit there with her while she yells at her kid to calm down. We try to go in her room and chill but he keeps coming back and forth to interrupt us.... Save yourself the trouble...DO NOT DATE SINGLE MOTHERS ...matter of fact do not even SLEEP with them...it's far too much trouble than it is worth. Just tell her this isn't for you and you want to be friends....
 

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Dude,

I've banged plenty of single mums.

The trick is to go around when the kids are asleep! or out with their "weekend dad"

Once you have banged her, make sure she is clear that it is just a sex thing. You really dont wanna be bringing up some other guy's brats.
 

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bang her then run far far away
This is fvcking awesome :flowers:

As far as a date goes with this b!tch, bring some Pampers and Candyland then do what brother BLOWME suggests.
 

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Avoid moms.
They're trouble.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ask where she wants to go, shes the one stuck in the house all the time:)
 
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