"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Need Ideas for date with single mom

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Ok so this girl I been hanging with has kids and we work together so we have lunch and sh!t and talk on the phone. I been to her house a few times but to this point we have never been alone without kids or anybody around. She does the typical girl stuff grabs my arm kisses on the cheek when we leave eachother. So today she tells me guess what? She says the baby father is comin for the kids this weekend so she will be free all weekend. I told her she cant have both days so she said fine friday. My ? is what should I do just take her to the crib and savage her or get some food a movie then savage her lol lol
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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MarkHammond said:
Ok so this girl I been hanging with has kids and we work together so we have lunch and sh!t and talk on the phone. I been to her house a few times but to this point we have never been alone without kids or anybody around. She does the typical girl stuff grabs my arm kisses on the cheek when we leave eachother. So today she tells me guess what? She says the baby father is comin for the kids this weekend so she will be free all weekend. I told her she cant have both days so she said fine friday. My ? is what should I do just take her to the crib and savage her or get some food a movie then savage her lol lol
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So, she is already taking you to her house and presented you to her kids? Certainly LOW quality material of a woman.
 
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Desdinova said:
Not much more to add there.

Two things SMs don't get to do often:

1) Go out and get drunk
2) Fvck
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VERY GOOD POINT!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I agree 100% with Drink and Fvck!! Then run. Single moms are gods proof that he has a sense of humor. For what you ask? For the poor b@st@rds that fall into the trap, thats what. Believe me I know, I was one of those poor b@st@rds!
 
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I wouldn't count on it. Single Mothers always end up cancelling or changing plans...this SM i used to talk to would tell me the same thing "Oh his father is coming and we can be alone" I would always get that voicemail that he isn't coming and didn't call or what a jerk he was for not answering the phone. Then like a dummy I would go over and sit there with her while she yells at her kid to calm down. We try to go in her room and chill but he keeps coming back and forth to interrupt us.... Save yourself the trouble...DO NOT DATE SINGLE MOTHERS ...matter of fact do not even SLEEP with them...it's far too much trouble than it is worth. Just tell her this isn't for you and you want to be friends....
 
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Dude,

I've banged plenty of single mums.

The trick is to go around when the kids are asleep! or out with their "weekend dad"

Once you have banged her, make sure she is clear that it is just a sex thing. You really dont wanna be bringing up some other guy's brats.
 
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bang her then run far far away
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This is fvcking awesome :flowers:

As far as a date goes with this b!tch, bring some Pampers and Candyland then do what brother BLOWME suggests.
 
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Avoid moms.
They're trouble.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ask where she wants to go, shes the one stuck in the house all the time:)
 
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