Need help with advice

[CornbreadFed]

I’m open to advice, but if you’re just going to criticize without support, it’s not really useful.

My advice to you is to stop crying over this Gypsy Lesbian and figure out why you have a scarcity mindset. I need have a good accurate read of your SMV. Whatever you are comfortable with is okay with me, but honesty is the best remedy to your problem right now.

 

[teakroy]

My advice to you is to stop crying over this Gypsy Lesbian and figure out why you have a scarcity mindset. I need have a good accurate read of your SMV. Whatever you are comfortable with is okay with me, but honesty is the best remedy to your problem right now.

She was from Moldova not gypsy

 

[CornbreadFed]

She was from Moldova not gypsy

Both are desperate for a man's resources

 

[SW15]

What hot girl goes to a music festival alone?? Big Ol Cap

This would never happen with a USA female. This is true for hot women, mids, and subpar women.

The more obviously you pursue someone, the more likely you are to chase them away. The real power is in drawing them in, making them want you and possess you.

In your case, after the initial phone call, it was already clear she had low interest. A woman who is genuinely excited, obsessed, and interested wouldn’t be missing your calls, she’d be glued to her phone, waiting, or the very list, contacting you back.

Unfortunately, that wasn’t the case here. It seems like you lost your sense of value, forgot you’re the prize, and you were obviously more invested in validation and the relationship. A high interest woman would take care of the relationship and make things easy for you.

Accurate.

This makes me think you’re still a bit blue-pilled, stuck in a scarcity mindset, and you had a case of oneitis; trying too hard to keep her from slipping away. My advice: don’t send these kinds of messages to women. Looking for closure is pointless, and arguing with them is even more futile. It just makes you sound bitter and butthurt that things didn’t work out the way you wanted.

Focus on keeping your frame and moving on.

It can take a while for me to shift their mindset from the typical nice guy/beta scarcity mindset to a mindset with greater outcome independence and more abundance.

The hope is that the growth can happen.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Absolutely! Here’s the entire conversation translated into English, in order, ready for you to copy:

You:
I probably shouldn’t write this message, but you could have told me that you have someone at Electric Castle, otherwise I wouldn’t have bothered like this. Well, you don’t have to give me any explanations, especially since I’m just a stranger, and if you at least read this message, it’s up to you. It seemed like you didn’t like me — how I look, how I behave, or that you didn’t want to communicate with me. But you could have been honest and told me beforehand that you had other plans. Yes, indeed we just passed by each other by chance, but I didn’t dare to bother since you were with someone else. The day before, I sent you a message and that’s it, but you didn’t reply...

Her:
I thought we were just friends since I like girls anyway.

You:
Well, I didn’t say anything about being more than friends, I didn’t know you liked girls but that doesn’t matter. How did you have fun?

Her:
Too bad you didn’t realize.

You:
Honestly, my radar was definitely on off mode. Thanks for the update. I promise I’ll train it better So, are we still friends or did I get ghosted without notice?

Her:
But I see you’re really in the mood to talk, no joke.

You:
Alright, I’ll be quiet and let the silence do all the talking — at least this is a conversation at the friends’ level!

Her:
A conversation at a friendly level is very minimalist and without extensions. With my friends, I exchange two messages every two months, and even then two messages each, because I don’t care that much about them, and not about you either.

You:
Great, we’re perfectly in sync — two messages a month at least. We both learned to pretend we care and not waste too much time on conversations.

Her:
If you’re buying legal stuff, tell me which dealer you use because what’s happening here is too crazy.

You:
Yeah, I’m on drugs: a daily dose of sarcasm and a hearty serving of reality. If that’s illegal, then I plead guilty with all my heart. But I wonder — didn’t you say we talk once every two months?

Her:
If silence is golden, you’ve invested everything in colored plastic.

You:
If silence is golden, then I’m the plastic diamond of conversations.

Her:
You mean a low-quality one — that’s what a plastic diamond means.

You:
Low-quality plastic has more personality than many genuine diamonds.

Her:
Never — if you’re a real diamond, you shine anytime. Plastic is good for throwing away, that’s why they give people their money back on plastic.

You:
That’s true, but at least this plastic knows how to put on a show before being thrown away.

Her:
I’ve never heard a sentence more fake than that. It’s obvious you’re plastic, you’re not real — not at all.

You:
It’s hard to compete with someone who lives in the world of easy insults.

Her:
Go to hell, or do you want to s.. d.. ?


i reply to her with help of chat gpt and when she will not win the argument she started insulting me and i deletede after half of text.. i write ,i got
my answer what person she is..

WTF did I just read

 

[BackInTheGame78]

You did something, which is better than doing nothing and you got the number. You didn't get the results you wanted but congrats for taking action in the moment.

 

[teakroy]

You did something, which is better than doing nothing and you got the number. You didn't get the results you wanted but congrats for taking action in the moment.

thank u very much!!! i like positivity.