red flag

From my experiences and observations, here are some red flags that really stand out: Continued Close Contact with Exes: When someone can’t seem to cut the cord with their exes, it often screams boundary issues or an inability to let go of the past. Sure, it’s fine to be friendly with an ex, but...

Hey everyone! A long-time lurker, first-time poster here. I discovered this forum a couple of years ago after the break-up with my GF and I’m eternally grateful for all the information I got here. Now it’s my turn to give back and, hopefully, I'll not only analyze the situation I’m in but help...

I've met a girl, she is kind interesting... She split the account when we went out and have her own house and job. But she likes to play a game similar to second life, called avakin. I know there is a ton of guys on those games looking for women and virtual relationships or even nudes or...

I met this girl a year ago when I was travelling and we’ve been in touch ever since. She’s from the US and I live in Europe. We’ve had two short holidays together last December. During the last trip I learned that she has a lot of issues. So here follows a summary: Only recently she told me...

I casually dated a girl on and off for a year(I know this was dumb). She started going through rough financial times and she asked me for money. I helped her and she started ghosting and flaking on me. When I addressed she said she was depressed and wants to be alone. Eventually after me arguing...

Considering you want a LTR with a woman, when you start to look for red flags and you screen her etc, and then at some point you realise she's been a who-re...Would you still consider a long term relationship with her? I mean, nowadays all women have had ONS, they've fvcked some dude raw style...

How do you handle when you're 'dating' a girl for a few months but because of a few red flags about her, you dont want her to be your girlfriend because you think it is not a good investment? I mean, you click, you like her etc, but she has some downsides like: she drinks too much, or she's...

I was wondering...let's say you're seing a girl that has a lot of good qualities, you like her a lot, she likes you too, everything goes well...but at some point you discover that she has a couple of red flags like maybe: she took drugs in the past, she used to be a total slvt, she cheated on a...