AJ here has given you good advice.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
NC is Killing me lol
- Thread starter niceguytoalphamale
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Stallionstud
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If it makes you feel any better I recently totally caught oneitis for a girl I banged twice, she lost interest and tried to friend zone me hard. No benefits. I wasn’t sure if it was a test or whaaat the fvck. Spilled my feelings for her and we went our separate ways. It wasn’t a test she just wasn’t into it.
niceguytoalphamale
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Thanks bro. We had a argument I had a really bad day.. she always initiate to catch up and she sent me a message which I thought was pointless.. I told her this she got ****ty and told me she wanted to catch up.. then we argued and she blocked me on facebook and isn't answering my messages even though I apologised and told her I had a bad day lol..I can't send anymore messages I'm just going to have to wait for her to reach out if she does reach out
lizardking82
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I am sorry, I have to say this: when I read the title of the thread "NC is killing me", I thought this was a girl writing the thread, but I knew it was a boy... NC is killing you? Really? I don't like to be the bully, but from the way you write I can tell what kinda guy you are right now. Grow up, change, focus on yourself, don't dedicate your life to women.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
Every day that is passing I'm getting stronger
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Wise words.
Also someone posted here about Rule No. 25, remember that, acknowledged that and be amused by that.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
Woman confuse the daylights out of me.. how did your date go?
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
At least the date was good.. did you F close or at least K close?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
That was truly alpha..