AJ here has given you good advice.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
NC is Killing me lol
- Thread starter niceguytoalphamale
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Stallionstud
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If it makes you feel any better I recently totally caught oneitis for a girl I banged twice, she lost interest and tried to friend zone me hard. No benefits. I wasn’t sure if it was a test or whaaat the fvck. Spilled my feelings for her and we went our separate ways. It wasn’t a test she just wasn’t into it.
niceguytoalphamale
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Thanks bro. We had a argument I had a really bad day.. she always initiate to catch up and she sent me a message which I thought was pointless.. I told her this she got ****ty and told me she wanted to catch up.. then we argued and she blocked me on facebook and isn't answering my messages even though I apologised and told her I had a bad day lol..I can't send anymore messages I'm just going to have to wait for her to reach out if she does reach out
lizardking82
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I am sorry, I have to say this: when I read the title of the thread "NC is killing me", I thought this was a girl writing the thread, but I knew it was a boy... NC is killing you? Really? I don't like to be the bully, but from the way you write I can tell what kinda guy you are right now. Grow up, change, focus on yourself, don't dedicate your life to women.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
Every day that is passing I'm getting stronger
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Wise words.
Also someone posted here about Rule No. 25, remember that, acknowledged that and be amused by that.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
Woman confuse the daylights out of me.. how did your date go?
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
At least the date was good.. did you F close or at least K close?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
That was truly alpha..