"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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NC is Killing me lol

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Go by what's actually happening in the present, and base your decisions on that. In the present, she is not contacting you and has blocked you. So, in the present, she doesn't want anything to do with you.

No one can predict whether or not she will contact you in the future but it's doesn't matter because you don't live in the future, so don't waste your time pondering over what ifs.

Assume that it's over and move on. With time it will be less of an issue and meeting other girls/ seeing friends/ doing other things you enjoy is how you take the sting out of this. If, after this, she does reach out, believe me you will be in a better place to know how to interact with her, if you even want to at that point.
AJ here has given you good advice.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If it makes you feel any better I recently totally caught oneitis for a girl I banged twice, she lost interest and tried to friend zone me hard. No benefits. I wasn’t sure if it was a test or whaaat the fvck. Spilled my feelings for her and we went our separate ways. It wasn’t a test she just wasn’t into it.
 

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If it makes you feel any better I recently totally caught oneitis for a girl I banged twice, she lost interest and tried to friend zone me hard. No benefits. I wasn’t sure if it was a test or whaaat the fvck. Spilled my feelings for her and we went our separate ways. It wasn’t a test she just wasn’t into it.
Thanks bro. We had a argument I had a really bad day.. she always initiate to catch up and she sent me a message which I thought was pointless.. I told her this she got ****ty and told me she wanted to catch up.. then we argued and she blocked me on facebook and isn't answering my messages even though I apologised and told her I had a bad day lol..I can't send anymore messages I'm just going to have to wait for her to reach out if she does reach out
 

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I am sorry, I have to say this: when I read the title of the thread "NC is killing me", I thought this was a girl writing the thread, but I knew it was a boy... NC is killing you? Really? I don't like to be the bully, but from the way you write I can tell what kinda guy you are right now. Grow up, change, focus on yourself, don't dedicate your life to women.
 

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I am sorry, I have to say this: when I read the title of the thread "NC is killing me", I thought this was a girl writing the thread, but I knew it was a boy... NC is killing you? Really? I don't like to be the bully, but from the way you write I can tell what kinda guy you are right now. Grow up, change, focus on yourself, don't dedicate your life to women.
Every day that is passing I'm getting stronger
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I am sorry, I have to say this: when I read the title of the thread "NC is killing me", I thought this was a girl writing the thread, but I knew it was a boy... NC is killing you? Really? I don't like to be the bully, but from the way you write I can tell what kinda guy you are right now. Grow up, change, focus on yourself, don't dedicate your life to women.
Wise words.

Also someone posted here about Rule No. 25, remember that, acknowledged that and be amused by that.
 

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Date ended good.

The food and movie was at best just below average.
 

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Girl pays for your food, drinks and movie.

The least I could do is return the favor by being present in her room and giving her multiple orgasms.

It would be considered most impolite not to do so.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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