AJ here has given you good advice.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
NC is Killing me lol
- Thread starter niceguytoalphamale
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Stallionstud
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If it makes you feel any better I recently totally caught oneitis for a girl I banged twice, she lost interest and tried to friend zone me hard. No benefits. I wasn’t sure if it was a test or whaaat the fvck. Spilled my feelings for her and we went our separate ways. It wasn’t a test she just wasn’t into it.
niceguytoalphamale
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Thanks bro. We had a argument I had a really bad day.. she always initiate to catch up and she sent me a message which I thought was pointless.. I told her this she got ****ty and told me she wanted to catch up.. then we argued and she blocked me on facebook and isn't answering my messages even though I apologised and told her I had a bad day lol..I can't send anymore messages I'm just going to have to wait for her to reach out if she does reach out
lizardking82
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I am sorry, I have to say this: when I read the title of the thread "NC is killing me", I thought this was a girl writing the thread, but I knew it was a boy... NC is killing you? Really? I don't like to be the bully, but from the way you write I can tell what kinda guy you are right now. Grow up, change, focus on yourself, don't dedicate your life to women.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
Every day that is passing I'm getting stronger
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Wise words.
Also someone posted here about Rule No. 25, remember that, acknowledged that and be amused by that.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
Woman confuse the daylights out of me.. how did your date go?
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
At least the date was good.. did you F close or at least K close?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
That was truly alpha..