"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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blackwolf

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i might be boring to many people. but i like my life the way it is. she doesn't live in singapore btw, she lives in texas.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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blackwolf said:
i might be boring to many people. but i like my life the way it is. she doesn't live in singapore btw, she lives in texas.

Horse****. If you liked the way your life the way it is then you wouldn't be on here jabbering on about how the only you met lately is some girl you met online while playing ps3.

If you don't want to go out, meet people and take an interest in the world around you then don't come on here and whine about how can't find a woman because they're all *****es.

Do you what I'll be doing in 2 weeks from now while you're playing ps3 and talking to your gaming girlfriend?

I'll be here interacting with people who do stuff like this.
 

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Wow, SharinganUser just want to say your people know how to have a good time.

Blackwolf/Lonewolf, i used to be like you, and granted we are kind of similar, I play xbox live a couple times a week, but im telling you this from so much experience with the whole online dating thing, if a woman won't show you pictures or she won't do webcam, thats a serious red flag man, he's hiding something and whats worse is you don't know what it is, might want to consider other options. And one more thing, you want to start doing something because you don't want ten years to go by and look back and say all you did in your prime years was play playstation.
 

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she said this to me in a message today after i asked her to take another pic with a paper in her hand saying something.

"I see. You don't trust it was me in the picture. That's scary ! I've jumped thru so many hoops already Mister!"


then i would know its her. but i think it is. shes not even HOT so why would she lie about how she looks?

im thinking of removing the relationship status thing on my facebook. i feel like shes in control because of this. and if she asks why ill just say .. because we havent met yet. when we do, we'll see what happens. heh.. she probably wont talk to me after that but i can't stand all this privacy !!! feels like shes lying to me but she says shes not!!

AM I OVER REACTING? IS A WOMAN ALLOWED TO BE THIS PRIVATE? I DONT KNOW HER AGE OR LAST NAME? SHE KEEPS FUKING HIDING HER WALL (SHES ONLY GOT 4 FRIENDS) - shes fuking weird but shes still a nice woman! grrr..
 

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blackwolf said:
heh.. she probably wont talk to me after that but i can't stand all this privacy !!! feels like shes lying to me but she says shes not!!

AM I OVER REACTING? IS A WOMAN ALLOWED TO BE THIS PRIVATE? I DONT KNOW HER AGE OR LAST NAME? SHE KEEPS FUKING HIDING HER WALL (SHES ONLY GOT 4 FRIENDS) - shes fuking weird but shes still a nice woman! grrr..
Why are you still asking this? We're on page two of this and everybody has said the same thing. You're not 'talking' to her. You're not her friend. You're not her boyfriend. Let's put this is terms you're comfortable with: this is a game. You're losing. Badly.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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SharinganUser

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Thundernuts said:
Wow, SharinganUser just want to say your people know how to have a good time.
lol, Those aren't my people. I am going to see this festival they have and try to get some pics and video. Anyone who can climb a ladder of razor sharp daggers has my respect.

if a woman won't show you pictures or she won't do webcam, thats a serious red flag man, he's hiding something and whats worse is you don't know what it is
Yeah, he's hiding something for sure.


And one more thing, you want to start doing something because you don't want ten years to go by and look back and say all you did in your prime years was play playstation.
That's exactly what I am saying. When you are young and have no responsibilities, you should be out having fun and experiencing life.
 

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Noodles said:
Why are you still asking this? We're on page two of this and everybody has said the same thing. You're not 'talking' to her. You're not her friend. You're not her boyfriend. Let's put this is terms you're comfortable with: this is a game. You're losing. Badly.
He's still asking because he's trying to keep the thread going. This guy has gotten enough attention. And enough information to figure it out on his own.

This thread had repeated itself like 3 separate times already.
 

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na uh!! i am back mother fukers! she HAS shown me pictures before.. the first few posts say that. i saw her pictures the first time we spoke. anyway, for those of you saying it's a guy, ur fuking wrong. because she just sent me a picture of her holding the letter she's going to send me with my name on it and some other words that only she would use (we have a personal joke together containing one word) so i know it's definitely her! as i said before she keeps saying how she can't wait to meet me and blah blah blah. she's still very private because she unhides her pictures for one minute on faacebook to let me see new photos, then hides it again. maybe she really is just very private! :)

anyhow, i dont see why a girl, average looking and old would waste her time sending someone a letter across the other side of the world if she wasn't interested. i am not in love with her either so i'm just going with the flow and still chatting to other girls. but you guys were pretty ignorant saying its a guy and she was playing me. again, she wont tell me her age or last name but big deal. she told me where she works at least. she has also asked her work for a vacation and is waiting for approval so she can come visit me.

i will post progress on this just to prove you guys wrong about this. if she DOES infact play me i will admit to it. now, just have to wait and see.
 
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