Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
blackwolf said:i might be boring to many people. but i like my life the way it is. she doesn't live in singapore btw, she lives in texas.
Why are you still asking this? We're on page two of this and everybody has said the same thing. You're not 'talking' to her. You're not her friend. You're not her boyfriend. Let's put this is terms you're comfortable with: this is a game. You're losing. Badly.blackwolf said:heh.. she probably wont talk to me after that but i can't stand all this privacy !!! feels like shes lying to me but she says shes not!!
AM I OVER REACTING? IS A WOMAN ALLOWED TO BE THIS PRIVATE? I DONT KNOW HER AGE OR LAST NAME? SHE KEEPS FUKING HIDING HER WALL (SHES ONLY GOT 4 FRIENDS) - shes fuking weird but shes still a nice woman! grrr..
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
lol, Those aren't my people. I am going to see this festival they have and try to get some pics and video. Anyone who can climb a ladder of razor sharp daggers has my respect.Thundernuts said:Wow, SharinganUser just want to say your people know how to have a good time.
Yeah, he's hiding something for sure.if a woman won't show you pictures or she won't do webcam, thats a serious red flag man, he's hiding something and whats worse is you don't know what it is
That's exactly what I am saying. When you are young and have no responsibilities, you should be out having fun and experiencing life.And one more thing, you want to start doing something because you don't want ten years to go by and look back and say all you did in your prime years was play playstation.
He's still asking because he's trying to keep the thread going. This guy has gotten enough attention. And enough information to figure it out on his own.Noodles said:Why are you still asking this? We're on page two of this and everybody has said the same thing. You're not 'talking' to her. You're not her friend. You're not her boyfriend. Let's put this is terms you're comfortable with: this is a game. You're losing. Badly.