"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Mysterious online woman...

blackwolf

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i might be boring to many people. but i like my life the way it is. she doesn't live in singapore btw, she lives in texas.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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blackwolf said:
i might be boring to many people. but i like my life the way it is. she doesn't live in singapore btw, she lives in texas.

Horse****. If you liked the way your life the way it is then you wouldn't be on here jabbering on about how the only you met lately is some girl you met online while playing ps3.

If you don't want to go out, meet people and take an interest in the world around you then don't come on here and whine about how can't find a woman because they're all *****es.

Do you what I'll be doing in 2 weeks from now while you're playing ps3 and talking to your gaming girlfriend?

I'll be here interacting with people who do stuff like this.
 

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Wow, SharinganUser just want to say your people know how to have a good time.

Blackwolf/Lonewolf, i used to be like you, and granted we are kind of similar, I play xbox live a couple times a week, but im telling you this from so much experience with the whole online dating thing, if a woman won't show you pictures or she won't do webcam, thats a serious red flag man, he's hiding something and whats worse is you don't know what it is, might want to consider other options. And one more thing, you want to start doing something because you don't want ten years to go by and look back and say all you did in your prime years was play playstation.
 

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she said this to me in a message today after i asked her to take another pic with a paper in her hand saying something.

"I see. You don't trust it was me in the picture. That's scary ! I've jumped thru so many hoops already Mister!"


then i would know its her. but i think it is. shes not even HOT so why would she lie about how she looks?

im thinking of removing the relationship status thing on my facebook. i feel like shes in control because of this. and if she asks why ill just say .. because we havent met yet. when we do, we'll see what happens. heh.. she probably wont talk to me after that but i can't stand all this privacy !!! feels like shes lying to me but she says shes not!!

AM I OVER REACTING? IS A WOMAN ALLOWED TO BE THIS PRIVATE? I DONT KNOW HER AGE OR LAST NAME? SHE KEEPS FUKING HIDING HER WALL (SHES ONLY GOT 4 FRIENDS) - shes fuking weird but shes still a nice woman! grrr..
 

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blackwolf said:
heh.. she probably wont talk to me after that but i can't stand all this privacy !!! feels like shes lying to me but she says shes not!!

AM I OVER REACTING? IS A WOMAN ALLOWED TO BE THIS PRIVATE? I DONT KNOW HER AGE OR LAST NAME? SHE KEEPS FUKING HIDING HER WALL (SHES ONLY GOT 4 FRIENDS) - shes fuking weird but shes still a nice woman! grrr..
Why are you still asking this? We're on page two of this and everybody has said the same thing. You're not 'talking' to her. You're not her friend. You're not her boyfriend. Let's put this is terms you're comfortable with: this is a game. You're losing. Badly.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SharinganUser

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Thundernuts said:
Wow, SharinganUser just want to say your people know how to have a good time.
lol, Those aren't my people. I am going to see this festival they have and try to get some pics and video. Anyone who can climb a ladder of razor sharp daggers has my respect.

if a woman won't show you pictures or she won't do webcam, thats a serious red flag man, he's hiding something and whats worse is you don't know what it is
Yeah, he's hiding something for sure.


And one more thing, you want to start doing something because you don't want ten years to go by and look back and say all you did in your prime years was play playstation.
That's exactly what I am saying. When you are young and have no responsibilities, you should be out having fun and experiencing life.
 

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Noodles said:
Why are you still asking this? We're on page two of this and everybody has said the same thing. You're not 'talking' to her. You're not her friend. You're not her boyfriend. Let's put this is terms you're comfortable with: this is a game. You're losing. Badly.
He's still asking because he's trying to keep the thread going. This guy has gotten enough attention. And enough information to figure it out on his own.

This thread had repeated itself like 3 separate times already.
 

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na uh!! i am back mother fukers! she HAS shown me pictures before.. the first few posts say that. i saw her pictures the first time we spoke. anyway, for those of you saying it's a guy, ur fuking wrong. because she just sent me a picture of her holding the letter she's going to send me with my name on it and some other words that only she would use (we have a personal joke together containing one word) so i know it's definitely her! as i said before she keeps saying how she can't wait to meet me and blah blah blah. she's still very private because she unhides her pictures for one minute on faacebook to let me see new photos, then hides it again. maybe she really is just very private! :)

anyhow, i dont see why a girl, average looking and old would waste her time sending someone a letter across the other side of the world if she wasn't interested. i am not in love with her either so i'm just going with the flow and still chatting to other girls. but you guys were pretty ignorant saying its a guy and she was playing me. again, she wont tell me her age or last name but big deal. she told me where she works at least. she has also asked her work for a vacation and is waiting for approval so she can come visit me.

i will post progress on this just to prove you guys wrong about this. if she DOES infact play me i will admit to it. now, just have to wait and see.
 
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