Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
blackwolf said:i might be boring to many people. but i like my life the way it is. she doesn't live in singapore btw, she lives in texas.
Why are you still asking this? We're on page two of this and everybody has said the same thing. You're not 'talking' to her. You're not her friend. You're not her boyfriend. Let's put this is terms you're comfortable with: this is a game. You're losing. Badly.blackwolf said:heh.. she probably wont talk to me after that but i can't stand all this privacy !!! feels like shes lying to me but she says shes not!!
AM I OVER REACTING? IS A WOMAN ALLOWED TO BE THIS PRIVATE? I DONT KNOW HER AGE OR LAST NAME? SHE KEEPS FUKING HIDING HER WALL (SHES ONLY GOT 4 FRIENDS) - shes fuking weird but shes still a nice woman! grrr..
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
lol, Those aren't my people. I am going to see this festival they have and try to get some pics and video. Anyone who can climb a ladder of razor sharp daggers has my respect.Thundernuts said:Wow, SharinganUser just want to say your people know how to have a good time.
Yeah, he's hiding something for sure.if a woman won't show you pictures or she won't do webcam, thats a serious red flag man, he's hiding something and whats worse is you don't know what it is
That's exactly what I am saying. When you are young and have no responsibilities, you should be out having fun and experiencing life.And one more thing, you want to start doing something because you don't want ten years to go by and look back and say all you did in your prime years was play playstation.
He's still asking because he's trying to keep the thread going. This guy has gotten enough attention. And enough information to figure it out on his own.Noodles said:Why are you still asking this? We're on page two of this and everybody has said the same thing. You're not 'talking' to her. You're not her friend. You're not her boyfriend. Let's put this is terms you're comfortable with: this is a game. You're losing. Badly.