Locster
Don Juan
This is a question for all you myspace sargers. What are ways to start conversations with myspace girls? Any help regarding myspace sarging would be appriciated.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
heh heh! thats actually right in my opinion. If I'm flirting with girls on myspace...its only with the girls I know and mack on in real life (cause they actually know that you aren't scared to hit on them face to face). If you start hitting on women over the internet, thats just weird and creepy or at the very least, the p.ussy thing to do.Ace of Flames said:Don't.
That's good advice.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
you're one to talk mister "tell her you're moving to get her in bed":nono:Tom Juan said:Omg, this is the most pathetic topic I've seen in quite a while.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Locster said:This is a question for all you myspace sargers. What are ways to start conversations with myspace girls? Any help regarding myspace sarging would be appriciated.
Locster said:^^^great so far ive been using these:
excuse me, i just want u to know that ur a pretty attractive female, but your hair could look a lil better
You seem like an interesting person, check out my profile and if you like it add me or atleast leave some comments
I think you're hot, you got instant messanger?
please tell me what yall think about them
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ballsy? what do you want? people to start congratulating you on how much of a brave man you are for dissing some girl over the internet? I wish i had your levle of confidenceMitch_Mustain said:I use myspace to start conversations with girls by dissing them and saying crue things. Disgusting no, distasteful maybe, ballsy, you bet.
what's sn?skip2mylou781 said:if ur tryin to be time efficient, then simply state wat ur thinkin and wat u want, almost as if ur pickin her up in person - "hey girl i had to tell u that ur so incredibly beautiful, gimme your AIM sn and we'll talk"
or
"hey cutie wats ur sn?" (that one works alot more than u think)
or
if u find somethin on their page to tease them about, then mention it in the subject so she reads ur message
i got myspace down to a science
Ace of Flames said:Sigh... guess I'll give a real answer, though my first response was true.
What I've found out is, almost no matter what you say, the girl will be on the defensive. Any number of online predators could be the one sending her these compliments. Sometimes they just won't reply at all. I don't blame them.
So, how to score on Myspace then? Let them come to you. If a girl on Myspace sends you a compliment, its totally different. You KNOW she's interested, and suddenly you are in control. You can easily reply back with something witty and turn it into a messenger sn, email address, or number.
But then again, how often will a HB7-10 NOT have a bf, BE on Myspace, and SEND you an actual compliment? Yeaaa, don't hold your breath for that one.
That's why I say, just use Myspace as an extra avenue for girls. Just make it and leave it. Check on it every now and then, and keep it updated, but never make it your main way to get girls.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.