Locster
Don Juan
This is a question for all you myspace sargers. What are ways to start conversations with myspace girls? Any help regarding myspace sarging would be appriciated.
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
heh heh! thats actually right in my opinion. If I'm flirting with girls on myspace...its only with the girls I know and mack on in real life (cause they actually know that you aren't scared to hit on them face to face). If you start hitting on women over the internet, thats just weird and creepy or at the very least, the p.ussy thing to do.Ace of Flames said:Don't.
That's good advice.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
you're one to talk mister "tell her you're moving to get her in bed":nono:Tom Juan said:Omg, this is the most pathetic topic I've seen in quite a while.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Locster said:This is a question for all you myspace sargers. What are ways to start conversations with myspace girls? Any help regarding myspace sarging would be appriciated.
Locster said:^^^great so far ive been using these:
excuse me, i just want u to know that ur a pretty attractive female, but your hair could look a lil better
You seem like an interesting person, check out my profile and if you like it add me or atleast leave some comments
I think you're hot, you got instant messanger?
please tell me what yall think about them
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ballsy? what do you want? people to start congratulating you on how much of a brave man you are for dissing some girl over the internet? I wish i had your levle of confidenceMitch_Mustain said:I use myspace to start conversations with girls by dissing them and saying crue things. Disgusting no, distasteful maybe, ballsy, you bet.
what's sn?skip2mylou781 said:if ur tryin to be time efficient, then simply state wat ur thinkin and wat u want, almost as if ur pickin her up in person - "hey girl i had to tell u that ur so incredibly beautiful, gimme your AIM sn and we'll talk"
or
"hey cutie wats ur sn?" (that one works alot more than u think)
or
if u find somethin on their page to tease them about, then mention it in the subject so she reads ur message
i got myspace down to a science
Ace of Flames said:Sigh... guess I'll give a real answer, though my first response was true.
What I've found out is, almost no matter what you say, the girl will be on the defensive. Any number of online predators could be the one sending her these compliments. Sometimes they just won't reply at all. I don't blame them.
So, how to score on Myspace then? Let them come to you. If a girl on Myspace sends you a compliment, its totally different. You KNOW she's interested, and suddenly you are in control. You can easily reply back with something witty and turn it into a messenger sn, email address, or number.
But then again, how often will a HB7-10 NOT have a bf, BE on Myspace, and SEND you an actual compliment? Yeaaa, don't hold your breath for that one.
That's why I say, just use Myspace as an extra avenue for girls. Just make it and leave it. Check on it every now and then, and keep it updated, but never make it your main way to get girls.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.