Locster
Don Juan
This is a question for all you myspace sargers. What are ways to start conversations with myspace girls? Any help regarding myspace sarging would be appriciated.
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
heh heh! thats actually right in my opinion. If I'm flirting with girls on myspace...its only with the girls I know and mack on in real life (cause they actually know that you aren't scared to hit on them face to face). If you start hitting on women over the internet, thats just weird and creepy or at the very least, the p.ussy thing to do.Ace of Flames said:Don't.
That's good advice.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
you're one to talk mister "tell her you're moving to get her in bed":nono:Tom Juan said:Omg, this is the most pathetic topic I've seen in quite a while.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Locster said:This is a question for all you myspace sargers. What are ways to start conversations with myspace girls? Any help regarding myspace sarging would be appriciated.
Locster said:^^^great so far ive been using these:
excuse me, i just want u to know that ur a pretty attractive female, but your hair could look a lil better
You seem like an interesting person, check out my profile and if you like it add me or atleast leave some comments
I think you're hot, you got instant messanger?
please tell me what yall think about them
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ballsy? what do you want? people to start congratulating you on how much of a brave man you are for dissing some girl over the internet? I wish i had your levle of confidenceMitch_Mustain said:I use myspace to start conversations with girls by dissing them and saying crue things. Disgusting no, distasteful maybe, ballsy, you bet.
what's sn?skip2mylou781 said:if ur tryin to be time efficient, then simply state wat ur thinkin and wat u want, almost as if ur pickin her up in person - "hey girl i had to tell u that ur so incredibly beautiful, gimme your AIM sn and we'll talk"
or
"hey cutie wats ur sn?" (that one works alot more than u think)
or
if u find somethin on their page to tease them about, then mention it in the subject so she reads ur message
i got myspace down to a science
Ace of Flames said:Sigh... guess I'll give a real answer, though my first response was true.
What I've found out is, almost no matter what you say, the girl will be on the defensive. Any number of online predators could be the one sending her these compliments. Sometimes they just won't reply at all. I don't blame them.
So, how to score on Myspace then? Let them come to you. If a girl on Myspace sends you a compliment, its totally different. You KNOW she's interested, and suddenly you are in control. You can easily reply back with something witty and turn it into a messenger sn, email address, or number.
But then again, how often will a HB7-10 NOT have a bf, BE on Myspace, and SEND you an actual compliment? Yeaaa, don't hold your breath for that one.
That's why I say, just use Myspace as an extra avenue for girls. Just make it and leave it. Check on it every now and then, and keep it updated, but never make it your main way to get girls.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.