Locster
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This is a question for all you myspace sargers. What are ways to start conversations with myspace girls? Any help regarding myspace sarging would be appriciated.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
MySpace pick-up-lines/intoductions/conversation starters?
- Thread starter Locster
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Ace of Flames
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Don't.
That's good advice.
That's good advice.
Locster
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Myspace and messengers should only be used to get a girls number, and that's it. It should be short, simple, and quick. Just get the number, and from there you call her up and arrange a date/whatever.
It shouldn't be the entire basis of your sarging.
If you're having a hard time trying to start a conversation over myspace.. I would hate to see you trying to pick up a girl face to face. It's not that hard. On myspace you have so much more to work with. You have her favorite bands, movies, hobbies etc.. take what you have and run with it. Of course don't spend too much time on small talk. Get straight to the point let her know you mean business and ask for her number.
It shouldn't be the entire basis of your sarging.
If you're having a hard time trying to start a conversation over myspace.. I would hate to see you trying to pick up a girl face to face. It's not that hard. On myspace you have so much more to work with. You have her favorite bands, movies, hobbies etc.. take what you have and run with it. Of course don't spend too much time on small talk. Get straight to the point let her know you mean business and ask for her number.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
heh heh! thats actually right in my opinion. If I'm flirting with girls on myspace...its only with the girls I know and mack on in real life (cause they actually know that you aren't scared to hit on them face to face). If you start hitting on women over the internet, thats just weird and creepy or at the very least, the p.ussy thing to do.Ace of Flames said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Picking up girls on myspace doesn't work very well from my experience.
It gives the girl too much opportunity to ignore the conversation.
I just had a perfect push-pull line set up with this girl (she has a bf, but she is a slut anyway, so I didn't care), I set up the push, and waited for a reply back to do the pull but it never came. So now she just thinks I'm a jerk.
Oh well, not a loss really. But there is just a lot of things that can go wrong.
That is just one example.
It gives the girl too much opportunity to ignore the conversation.
I just had a perfect push-pull line set up with this girl (she has a bf, but she is a slut anyway, so I didn't care), I set up the push, and waited for a reply back to do the pull but it never came. So now she just thinks I'm a jerk.
Oh well, not a loss really. But there is just a lot of things that can go wrong.
That is just one example.
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more pathetic than the 'Listen To Country Music' thread?
ValleyDJing
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you're one to talk mister "tell her you're moving to get her in bed":nono:Tom Juan said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Locster said:
if ur tryin to be time efficient, then simply state wat ur thinkin and wat u want, almost as if ur pickin her up in person - "hey girl i had to tell u that ur so incredibly beautiful, gimme your AIM sn and we'll talk
"or
"hey cutie wats ur sn?" (that one works alot more than u think)
or
if u find somethin on their page to tease them about, then mention it in the subject so she reads ur message
i got myspace down to a science
Locster
Don Juan
^^^great so far ive been using these:
excuse me, i just want u to know that ur a pretty attractive female, but your hair could look a lil better
You seem like an interesting person, check out my profile and if you like it add me or atleast leave some comments
I think you're hot, you got instant messanger?
please tell me what yall think about them
excuse me, i just want u to know that ur a pretty attractive female, but your hair could look a lil better
You seem like an interesting person, check out my profile and if you like it add me or atleast leave some comments
I think you're hot, you got instant messanger?
please tell me what yall think about them
skip2mylou781
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Locster said:
ur 17 and from LA....DONT NEG HIT ON MYSPACE and DONT SAY HOT - say anythin besides hot....beautiful, gorgeous, pretty, girls HATE hearing hot, it makes them sound more slutty so its nto a good pickup word
check_mate_kid_uk
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Girls love the compliments but its not doing you any favours to talk like this! It just makes you sound sleezy. If you where to tell her you noticed her smile or something like that well it would probably come off even worse because girls are on guard for this because they know guys will say something like that.
If girls are on myspace they obviously want to talk so just pick something genuine and say it!
If girls are on myspace they obviously want to talk so just pick something genuine and say it!
Mitch_Mustain
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I use myspace to start conversations with girls by dissing them and saying crue things. Disgusting no, distasteful maybe, ballsy, you bet.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Sigh... guess I'll give a real answer, though my first response was true.
What I've found out is, almost no matter what you say, the girl will be on the defensive. Any number of online predators could be the one sending her these compliments. Sometimes they just won't reply at all. I don't blame them.
So, how to score on Myspace then? Let them come to you. If a girl on Myspace sends you a compliment, its totally different. You KNOW she's interested, and suddenly you are in control. You can easily reply back with something witty and turn it into a messenger sn, email address, or number.
But then again, how often will a HB7-10 NOT have a bf, BE on Myspace, and SEND you an actual compliment? Yeaaa, don't hold your breath for that one.
That's why I say, just use Myspace as an extra avenue for girls. Just make it and leave it. Check on it every now and then, and keep it updated, but never make it your main way to get girls.
What I've found out is, almost no matter what you say, the girl will be on the defensive. Any number of online predators could be the one sending her these compliments. Sometimes they just won't reply at all. I don't blame them.
So, how to score on Myspace then? Let them come to you. If a girl on Myspace sends you a compliment, its totally different. You KNOW she's interested, and suddenly you are in control. You can easily reply back with something witty and turn it into a messenger sn, email address, or number.
But then again, how often will a HB7-10 NOT have a bf, BE on Myspace, and SEND you an actual compliment? Yeaaa, don't hold your breath for that one.
That's why I say, just use Myspace as an extra avenue for girls. Just make it and leave it. Check on it every now and then, and keep it updated, but never make it your main way to get girls.
check_mate_kid_uk
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ballsy? what do you want? people to start congratulating you on how much of a brave man you are for dissing some girl over the internet? I wish i had your levle of confidenceMitch_Mustain said:
what's sn?skip2mylou781 said:if ur tryin to be time efficient, then simply state wat ur thinkin and wat u want, almost as if ur pickin her up in person - "hey girl i had to tell u that ur so incredibly beautiful, gimme your AIM sn and we'll talk
or
"hey cutie wats ur sn?" (that one works alot more than u think)
or
if u find somethin on their page to tease them about, then mention it in the subject so she reads ur message
i got myspace down to a science
Ace of Flames
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Screen name.
What else could it have been?
What else could it have been?
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Ace of Flames said:
for girls under the age of 21, ud be surprised how many single hot girls tehre really are!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.