Locster
Don Juan
This is a question for all you myspace sargers. What are ways to start conversations with myspace girls? Any help regarding myspace sarging would be appriciated.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
heh heh! thats actually right in my opinion. If I'm flirting with girls on myspace...its only with the girls I know and mack on in real life (cause they actually know that you aren't scared to hit on them face to face). If you start hitting on women over the internet, thats just weird and creepy or at the very least, the p.ussy thing to do.Ace of Flames said:Don't.
That's good advice.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
you're one to talk mister "tell her you're moving to get her in bed":nono:Tom Juan said:Omg, this is the most pathetic topic I've seen in quite a while.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Locster said:This is a question for all you myspace sargers. What are ways to start conversations with myspace girls? Any help regarding myspace sarging would be appriciated.
Locster said:^^^great so far ive been using these:
excuse me, i just want u to know that ur a pretty attractive female, but your hair could look a lil better
You seem like an interesting person, check out my profile and if you like it add me or atleast leave some comments
I think you're hot, you got instant messanger?
please tell me what yall think about them
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
ballsy? what do you want? people to start congratulating you on how much of a brave man you are for dissing some girl over the internet? I wish i had your levle of confidenceMitch_Mustain said:I use myspace to start conversations with girls by dissing them and saying crue things. Disgusting no, distasteful maybe, ballsy, you bet.
what's sn?skip2mylou781 said:if ur tryin to be time efficient, then simply state wat ur thinkin and wat u want, almost as if ur pickin her up in person - "hey girl i had to tell u that ur so incredibly beautiful, gimme your AIM sn and we'll talk"
or
"hey cutie wats ur sn?" (that one works alot more than u think)
or
if u find somethin on their page to tease them about, then mention it in the subject so she reads ur message
i got myspace down to a science
Ace of Flames said:Sigh... guess I'll give a real answer, though my first response was true.
What I've found out is, almost no matter what you say, the girl will be on the defensive. Any number of online predators could be the one sending her these compliments. Sometimes they just won't reply at all. I don't blame them.
So, how to score on Myspace then? Let them come to you. If a girl on Myspace sends you a compliment, its totally different. You KNOW she's interested, and suddenly you are in control. You can easily reply back with something witty and turn it into a messenger sn, email address, or number.
But then again, how often will a HB7-10 NOT have a bf, BE on Myspace, and SEND you an actual compliment? Yeaaa, don't hold your breath for that one.
That's why I say, just use Myspace as an extra avenue for girls. Just make it and leave it. Check on it every now and then, and keep it updated, but never make it your main way to get girls.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.