"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My take on "The paradigm for psychopathic and deviant personality"

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The paradigm for psychopathic and deviant personality. (apa.org)

In contrast to inadequate personality, this early lack of socialized ego development is overcome by a more individualized ego development which permits the individual to attain the goals of ego alien and socially proscribed motives by indirect means.
In other words, not conforming to the irrationality of the majority of the people is a 'problem.'

Using conformity as a standard for mental health is problematic for a number of reasons. The proper standard for mental health ought to be rationality.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The paradigm for psychopathic and deviant personality. (apa.org)



In other words, not conforming to the irrationality of the majority of the people is a 'problem.'

Using conformity as a standard for mental health is problematic for a number of reasons. The proper standard for mental health ought to be rationality.
There's a reason why the word "psychotic" has meanings that range from "seeing things and hearing voices" to merely having a difference of opinion with an established majority.
 

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There's a reason why the word "psychotic" has meanings that range from "seeing things and hearing voices" to merely having a difference of opinion with an established majority.
Usually it infers having a break from reality or making up your own version of things that actually never happened and then trying to convince others they actually did.
 
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